subject: How To Make Women Want You - 4 Tips To Attract Women [print this page] What you are really hoping for is that you will be able to attract women and make them want you as a boyfriend and not as just another guy friend that they have but take for granted. Lots of men end up being that guy friend that will do favors for a woman, like help her move or give her rides, but they don't end up getting to be her boyfriend and that is something that you probably want to avoid. It's no fun to be attracted to a woman and realize that she takes you for granted and does not see you in the way that you want her to see you. So, it is normal to feel like you want to figure out what you can do so that does not happen to you.
There are really common reasons for why guys get taken for granted by the women that they want to date, and as long as you are able to figure that out and know what you should not do, you should be able to escape that experience. The last thing that you want to do is to end up being the guy a woman calls up when she needs a favor, rather than being the guy that she calls up when she wants to go out and have a good time.
Here are 4 tips to attract women and make a woman want you as more than a friend:
1) If you want to make her want you, then you have to be able to say no when she asks for a favor.
This goes against the grain of what most guys will do, and you may think that saying no to a woman when she asks you for a favor is a bad thing, but it usually isn't. What you are doing is establishing a boundary right away that tells her that you are not going to be that guy who will jump when she calls and you are not looking to be someone that she takes for granted. At the end of the day, it is a good thing to let a woman know that you are not going to fill that role in her life.
2) When you are talking to a woman, you have to realize that you need to be flirting with her.
Friends talk differently than prospective lovers do, and you don't want to talk to her the way that someone who is just a friend would talk to her. You want to instead talk to her the way that a guy would who is trying to be more than friends, and that means that you do need to flirt with her. You don't want to flirt too much, because that can end up being bad, but you don't want to flirt too little with her, because that is going to make you seem like all you want to do is to be her friend.
3) Ask her out at some point.
Many men end up being taken for granted simply because they never take things to that next level and they don't ask the woman out on a real date. They might go and hang out with her, but it is not in the context of being a date, it is more in the context of two friends hanging out. The more times you hang out with a woman in the context of being just two friends hanging out, the more likely it is that you are always going to be friends material to her and nothing you will be able to do will change that.
4) Don't spend too much time with her until you are dating her.
Until you are dating a woman you like, you really should not spend too much time with her. You should go out and do things without her, so that she knows that you are capable of having fun when she is not around and also so that you make it clear that you are not looking for a pal to do things with. This can be hard to do, but when you do this, you let her know that you can't be taken for granted and be expected to just hang around.
