subject: Why Is It So Hard For You To Approach A Woman? [print this page] While you are not the kind of guy who would tell the whole world that you have a problem when it comes to approaching women you are attracted to, you certainly know that it is an issue for you. You know it because you are the one who has to deal with the fact that when you see a woman you like, you tend to avoid doing what you want to do and instead of making the approach, you just act like you don't want to get to know that woman. However, deep down inside, you know that you really would love to be able to take action when you see a woman you are really attracted to. You know that you would love to be able to walk right up to her and get to know her, but you are not quite sure why it seems to be so hard for you to do that.
So, let's take a look at why it is so hard for you to be able to approach a woman:
1) You tend to feel as though when you approach a woman, you are just going to be seen as an annoyance.
This generally is a feeling that men who don't feel like they have much value to give to a woman have. They assume that if they were to approach a woman that they thought was attractive - she would end up feeling like all they were doing was annoying her and that is why they just don't even bother to make the approach even when they really feel like they want to be able to.
2) You've had way too many experiences where your approach did not turn out well.
This is a really understandable reason for a guy to find it hard to actually walk up to a woman. If there was a time in your life when you did not have too much trouble making approaches, and then you did not seem to be able to make the women you approached feel attracted to you in any way, then it is natural to think that this is the way that it is going to be. Now, what I would say is that it does not have to always be that way because you can take a look back on those bad experiences and figure out what you might have done wrong then and what you could do differently now.
3) You don't feel confident in being able to open the conversation with a woman you like.
Deep down, you already know on some level that if you are going to be a success with women, then you are going to have to be able to open the conversation. It really does not matter so much what technique you choose to use. What matters the most is that you are actually able to open the dialogue and do it in such a way that she is talking back and forth with you.
4) Finally, a common reason why men find the approach so hard is because they emulate the wrong styles.
Every guy has had to try and find his own style when it comes to attracting and approaching women. Some never do. Actually, I should say that most never do. And because they never get their own style down, it always seems kind of phony when they do try to approach a woman. You do not want to come across like a phony no matter what, so it is wise to develop your own way of doing things.
