subject: It Really Is All About Knowing What To Say And When To Say It [print this page] Each generation seems to face their own unique struggles when it comes to dating and this one seems to have the challenge of being able to weave successful text messaging into their repertoire if they are going to really face the challenge of creating a sense of lasting rapport with a woman. A few years ago, I was totally on the fence about having to learn what it takes to become good at texting women. I did not really like it, and I felt that it was not all that necessary. Things have changed, that much is for sure. You are going to have to come to that realization, much like I had to. It's okay if you are not in a space where you feel as though you are good at doing the text messaging thing, you can slowly get good at it.
One thing that I should remind you of, is the fact that just knowing how to text women does not mean that you are going to magically become a guy who can get any woman that he wants. For one thing, you have to be able to get a woman's phone number so that you can text her. For another, you are not really going to get anywhere just communicating on the phone. You are going to have to get a woman to want to be with you face to face for the real magic to happen. That is how you are going to be able to have a chance at having a very good and lasting relationship. Or, if you prefer, to have a little bit of fun as you get to know more than one woman. Either way is good, it all depends on what you prefer.
What is the secret to being able to text a woman?
Just like with face to face conversations, it all comes down to your ability to know what to say and when to say it. There is a time and a place to be flirty with a woman. There is a time and a place when all you really need to do is to communicate with a woman so that you can meet up and do something together later on. And sometimes, all she is going to want to do is to talk a little back and forth to just have some conversation. So, what you are going to have to do is recognize when the time is right to be flirtatious, when the time is right to just be there, and when the time is right to make plans to do something later on. If you can figure these things out, then you should be able to come up with something good to text a woman you like and you should be able to leverage that technology to help build up rapport and attraction with her as well.
Things you want to avoid:
Whatever you do, don't allow yourself to pick up the cell phone and text away any time that a thought pops into your head. She does not want to hear all of the things that you want to say to her, even if you think that she would. Not only that, it will just make you look like you are needy and never busy and that is something that you don't want a woman to think about you if you are going to be able to make her feel like she wants you. And another thing that you really want to avoid is the urge to get a little too racy with her too quickly. It might be tempting to go that route, but you probably should hold back a little bit.
