subject: Make Light Of Problem In Daily Life [print this page] Make light of problem in daily life Make light of problem in daily life
Every living person has What is the secret ingrdient of tough people that enables them to suceed? Why do they survive the tough times when others are overcome by them? Why do they win when others lose? Why do they soar when others sink?
The answer is very simple. It's alll in how they perceive their problems. Yes, very living person has problems. A problem-free life is an illusion- a mirage in the desert. Accept that fact.
Every mountain has a peak. Every valley has its low point.Everysand maker has its limit.Life has its ups and downs, its peaks and its valleys. No one is up all the time, nor are that down all the time. Problems do end. They are all resolved in time.
you may not be able to control the times, but you can compose your response. You can turn you pain into profanity-or into peotry. The choice is up to you. You may not have shosen your tough time, but you can choose how you react to it. For instant, what is the positive reaction to a terrible finacial setback? In this situation would it be the positive resaction to cop out and run away? Escape through alcohol, drug, or suiside? No! Such negetive reactions only produce greater problems by promising a temporary 'solution' to the pressing problem. The positive solution to a problem may require courage to initiate it. When you control your reaction to the seemingly uncontrollable problem of life, then in fact you do control the problem's effect on you Your reaction to the problem is the last word! That's the botom line. What will you let this problem do to you? It can make you tender or tough. It can make you better or bitter. It all depends on you.
In the final analysis, the tough people who survive the tough times do so because thet've chosen to react positive;y to their predicament. Tough times never last , but tough people do. Tough people stick it out. History teaches us that every problem has a lifespan. No problem is permanent. Storms always give way to sun. Winter always thaws into springtime. Your storm will pass. Your winter will thaw. Your problem will be solved
