subject: I Think I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating on Me - How Do I Know For Sure? [print this page] You think you might have caught your girlfriend cheating on you. The writing seems to be on the wall, you should have seen it coming. (Enough cliche's for you). When you are stuck in the position of being suspicious that your girlfriend has been cheating on you, you might be confused as to what you should do. I can imagine that you do want to be sure that she was in fact cheating on you, because you don't want to let a good thing go if you happened to be wrong.
Here are some tips on how to know for sure that you have caught your girlfriend cheating on you:
1) Your girlfriend is acting like she needs to have more and more alone time right now.
It's natural for a woman to want a little bit of alone time, but that does not mean she is definitely cheating on you. However, if she wants to be alone and away from you ALOT then you might need to take a cold hard look at the situation. She might be going through some stress or emotional times, but she also might have a new guy sitting in the background, and you might be the foolish guy that does not have a clue!
2) Your girlfriend is taking weekend trips and you are not invited.
I have actually seen this kind of a scenario go down before, and it's not always pretty. Your girlfriend tells you that she is going out of town and it starts to happen more and more frequently. Could it be that she has reconnected with an old boyfriend that moved away and they are rekindling things? Could it be that she has met someone online and now she has decided to go beyond just chit chat on a computer? Anyway you look at it, you might want to consider the possibility that is out there cheating on you.
3) Your girlfriend has many more "girls nights out" than she used to.
Sometimes this is just because she wants to connect with her friends and she wants to feel like she is able to have her own life. And sometimes it is because they are going out to singles clubs and bars and hooking up for the night. If she seems to be making this a more frequent thing, then you might have to deal with the fact that she is indeed stepping out and cheating on you.
I Think I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating on Me - How Do I Know For Sure?