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Don't Break Your Fall in Love
Commonly known as the wedding day, when falling in love concludes in a marriage. It is a great fall for anyone to experience, one of life's most exciting moment the ecstasy, the strong feeling of belonging to each other get you into a world of your own. A type of blindness to all ill overwhelm you and nothing else in this world matters but your new found lover. Infatuation with each other becomes so strong that regard for the opinion and feelings of parents means nothing, it seems everything is just perfect and so shall it ever be. Some even rush the life alternative marrying decision without considering the weight of the commitment.
The Marriage Vow to Have and to Hold
The marriage vow holds a lot of commitment power, "to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part", This is serious stuff it means life time no matter what, you become responsible to see to it these vows are kept; but these words of commitment are seldom ever fulfilled. In every marriage there will come a time when you will need a mediator, some chose to seek counseling from marriage counselors, a minister of religion or older family members, but the best counselor in any marriage is the one who first institute marriage.
Some Signs of a Marriage Break Down
Some simple things could initiate breakdown in a marriage because it is a sensitive and personal relationship between two. The intertwinement which cause you to become one means anything one does it affect the other be it good or evil, therefore each has got to be protective of each other's well being by learning their likes and dislike, and more so prefer your partner's happiness over unhappiness. Whenever one party begins to act and do as he/she likes without a care as to the effect it will have one the other, then things will begin to go bad. This is the onset of disrespect, it triggers an argument and if it is not resolve it breed resentment, communication lessens and if left alone it becomes more complicated. A third party interference with a marriage other than a marriage counselor could be damaging, do your diligence to avoid that as much as possible.
The onset of a marriage breakdown often begins with the lack of communication when either party cease to speak to each other and neither are willing to break the silence. The longer an issue is left unresolved in a marriage is the wider the gap becomes, and the busy adversary will seize the opportunity to fill that gap with either someone else or anything that will contribute to the dissolving of the marriage. Understanding each other is very essential and this does not happen overnight; it sometime takes a while to truly know your partner.
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