subject: How to Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend - Tips You Need RIGHT Now [print this page] Dealing with a breakup is not something that you want to ever have to go through, but it does happen. Well, if you want to get your girlfriend back, then you need to be able to deal with things and not allow them to make you feel like you are out of control. The more you are able to control your emotions, the more likely it is that you will end up getting her back, and making her want to have a relationship with you again.
1. She's not going to feel drawn back to you just because you are hurting over the breakup.
It's pretty common for a guy to try and woo back his girlfriend by making her feel "sorry" for him by letting her see how desperate you are and how torn up the break up has made you feel. Unfortunately, that usually ends up having the opposite effect that you want it to have, because then your ex girlfriend just sees you as being desperate. Just because you are hurting over the breakup, it's not going to make her want to get back together with you.
2. It's not going to make her want you back if you just sit at home and hope she comes running back to you.
A lot of guys will kind of put their life on hold until they get their girlfriend back, but that is not the right thing to do. You need to be able to get on with your life, enjoy it, and make the most of things right now. It's not exactly attractive for your girlfriend to see that all you are doing is sitting at home and waiting for her to come back to you. Instead, you need to give off the impression that you are living a FULL life.
3. To get her to come back to you, it has to happen in stages.
One of the things that hurts a lot of guys when they try to win back their ex girlfriend, is that they try to make it happen too fast. Yes, you can get her back quickly, but if you think that you can woo her back overnight, then you need to be patient and realize that it can take a little time to make it happen. You need to bring back the attraction, and then BUILD on that attract until she feels like she cannot take it ANYMORE!
How to Get Back Your Ex-Girlfriend - Tips You Need RIGHT Now
