subject: How To Flirt With A Woman You Like - 3 Flirting Tips For Guys Who Are Shy [print this page] One of the things that really can be kind of hard when you are a naturally shy guy, is trying to flirt with a woman properly and effectively. You probably already feel a little bit self conscious when you are around a woman you like and it probably feels like that self conscious feeling gets amplified a bit when you are trying to establish some kind of connection with a woman by flirting with her. Maybe you feel as though you don't know what to say. Or, maybe you feel as though you seem to come across as being boring and that is something that you want to change. Whatever it is that you want to do, there are plenty of tips on how to flirt with a woman you like that should be able to get you there.
Here are 3 tips for flirting with a woman you like that should help you out, even if you are a shy guy:
1) Make soft eye contact with her.
The difference between making soft eye contact and hard eye contact in my opinion is, making it seem natural. Soft eye contact suggests attraction, like you really like looking at her. Hard eye contact on the other hand gives off that weird vibe that makes a woman feel like she just wants you to stop looking at her. It's hard to learn the difference at first, but when you do and you utilize making soft eye contact with a woman, you should be able to see quite a big difference in how women seem to feel around you.
2) Don't feel the need to dominate the talking time with her.
If you really like her, then you probably do want to get to know her, right? Well, let that be your motivation to ask her questions and allow her to do a lot of the talking. Some guys feel really weird about talking to a woman that they like because they feel as though they have to be able to dominate all of the talking time and that just is not the case at all.
3) When in doubt, try and get an easy laugh.
This is the classic rapport builder and the never fail ice breaker. If you don't know what to do to flirt with a woman you are attracted to, try and get an easy laugh out of her. You may not be funny enough to make it on the comedy circuit anytime soon, but if you can say something to get her laughing, then things will feel a lot easier for you and for her.
