subject: How To Make A Guy Want You For Ever [print this page] Wondering how to make a guy want you? At the start of a relationship and after it has been going for a while? Yes he has to feel attraction, thats a bit of a given, but how do you make him commit? We have all seen fairly average women with gorgeous men hanging on their every word but what exactly is she doing to achieve this?
You think to yourself, well I look after myself, and take the time to look good for him, so why isnt he attracted to me? Even worse to some extent is the question why doesnt he appear to want me anymore? Its all quite complicated and whilst he may still appear to be interested that doesnt mean that he wants to be with you now or forever.
The phrase want is a little odd really. How to make a guy want you? Does it mean sex? Well in the early stages probably yes it does but this isnt really what you are thinking is it? You are looking longer term. A lot of women are too open about this at the outset and give a lot away. Men dont operate like women and are not too interested in the failure of your previous relationships, nor do they find emotional baggage attractive. You have to be careful how you operate particularly in the early stages if you want to get him to want you longer term.
There is a saying about all the thrill of the chase and it does exist. If there is a bit of mystery involved this can increase the longing and want in men and indeed women, it does work both ways. Say if you were reading a book and you guessed the end part way through, would you be bothered continuing? Guys react the same way. If they guess where it appears to be going, they can lose interest or run away.
Yes he may have been very enthusiastic at the outset and all over you, but the interest has waned. Marriage or any long term commitment seems a long long way off. Think about it though, if he was that full on and you engaged in that with little or no resistance then he could start thinking, this is a bit easy. He thinks he picks up on signals that indicate to him that you want to tie him down and his gut tells him to flee.
This is the conflict that all men have, the conflict between the heart and the gut. They dont think with their head and oftentimes the gut wins. The situation can be reversed for the better but you have to be careful. There are ways and means and slowing down can be part of that. The male fantasy is that they are put on this earth for a reason and you have to help him think that you are part of that reason and are there to share his life with him. His fantasy may not be realistic but getting him to believe that you in there with him is one of the first steps you can take to get him to commit long term. There are means and ways of doing that click here
