subject: Cheaters Are Among Us [print this page] First of all we would need to find out why we humans cheat each other so often being in a relationship.
The main reasons men seek extramarital affairs:
- nature, they are biological programmed like this, to have as many offspring's as possible.
- they are unhappy with their existing sex life, where nowadays with the wide spread of internet having an affair is easier then ever.
- they are simply bored with their existing partner
- they are not attracted to their life partner any more, usually as an effect of ageing and giving birth to children
- because some men need adrenaline in their blood and extra adventures
- for some sex and love are completely 2 different things
The main reason women seek extramarital affairs:
- they don't get enough attention from their existing partner
- "payback" for what the partner did, or at least what the woman thinks he did
- naughty girl, just like man need more adventures and don't have any brakes
- high sexual requirements not fulfilled by the existing partner
- not enough care, closeness and understanding from the husband will lead the woman to look for a companion to talk and sometimes even more.
- boredom, there's not enough going on with her partner
These are just a few reasons why men and woman cheat on each other and seek sexual affairs. Most probably this is only the tip of a mountain and there are many more reasons why we aren't faithful to each other.
The most worrying is the growing tendency of extramarital affairs.
How can we prevent this from happening to us?
First of all is talk, talk and talk to your partner about his expectations and your needs. Good communication and dialogue between partners is 90% success on a happy relationship.
If you think it's to late and you are already being cheated on, before making any accusement, try to find out the truth. Maybe your partner is only tired or has some other reasons.
There are many ways on how to find what is the reason for your doubt of your partners loyalty.
First and most basic one is to have a honest conversation with your him or her. If this doesn't help you can always take matters in your hand and investigate what is the problem. Common and inexpensive ways of finding out the truth are:
- key-loggers software used to log keys struck on the computer keyboard
- spyphone software - software used to monitor and spy on mobile phone usage including tracking
