subject: How To Woo A Man - 6 Power Tips [print this page] Wooing is less of an art and more of a science. Whether or not it's just your husband, boyfriend, lover, or a seeming "Unavailable Man," there are secrets that every woman can learn in mastering how to woo a man. Please reflect on a few critical questions and thoughts:
- Are you confident? Confidence is sexy! Every man is attracted to a woman that is sure of themselves. Men don't gain pleasure from spending time with a woman that needs constant affirmation. Know that you are beautiful! Are you a couple of pounds overweight? Who cares! Several men find this attractive if only there is a greater level of confidence to back it up.
- Independence is also a huge attribute to be employed in learning how to woo a man. This is so critical in strong relationship building. The "Unavailable Man" especially finds this to be sexy. Do you find yourself seeking permission to go out with your girlfriends? Forget it! Of course it is essential to make your significant other know that they are number one, but it is also meaningful for them to know that you can have an enjoyable time without them.
- Gain Attraction by being Polite and Thoughtful. Are you mean to the waiter when on a date? Do you talk negatively about your family, colleagues, etc...? Why would a man find this appealing? You can do your best to fake congeniality but it's not going to fly. If you try and dish this out to the "Unavailable Man" he will give it back and take even more advantage of you. Learn to be a thoughtful person and you will find the male attraction level increase significantly.
- Being Mysterious. This is a powerful aphrodisiac and must be used in learning how to woo a man. You should not discuss every thought or emotion...BORING! If he asks you about an awkward or funny moment you don't have to spill the beans. However, be careful to only use this characteristic at the start of a relationship. Using this on a husband or boyfriend may lead them to question your faithfulness. It's, of course, the most powerful character trait to use on the "Unavailable Man."
- Let your man be the Hunter and Protector and you will get a masters degree in how to woo a man. Don't be afraid to lean on him and grab his arm when crossing the street. Smile shyly and request that he helps you with a handyman task at your home. Seek his protection and hold his hand tightly when the large and intimidating neighborhood dog comes close. This character trait is so important and lets a man tune into his caveman roots. This is also an important indicator to find out if he is truly interested or just the "Unavailable Man."
- The last important trait in learning how to woo a man is so simple. SMILE!! Are you laughing at his jokes? You'd better be if you want to keep things going. Let your eyes light up with a sparkling display of joy. This lets them know that you are really happy in their presence. Besides...if you're not laughing, why would you want there to be a second date anyway?
