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Are you aggressive enough to get your gal? It is nice to be a nice

guy but you cannot get your gal by being nice! You have to be

active and aggressive too.

You will need to realize that being shy is a natural trait and

like any natural trait, it can be changed. So ideally, you have to

change.

If deep inside, you will not wish to change, then no person in this

world can assist you. You must ask yourselves whether you are worried

enough to choose to change. You must be serious and committed to it.

Only you will help yourselves.

We can not have poor view of ourselves. Instead, we have got to

think positive. If we believe that we won't be able to speak to the

lady, subsequently this is negative thinking.

Alternatively we will need to reassure ourselves that we can do it.

Have you ever like something a great deal that you will go to

great length to get it.

There was this child who wanted a bicycle a great deal, so much

so that he saved half of his school meal's money every day until

it is sufficient to buy the bicycle.

As a result, in the event you desire the woman so much, wouldn't

you pressure yourself to approach and speak to her.

Are you afraid of rejection? On one end is the "fear of rejection"

and on the other end is the exquisite woman next door that you

imagined so a great deal to chat to.

Which means that the question is; is your fear of rejection so

great that you are prepared to give up on the woman of your

aspiration. If you consider to give up on her, subsequently I can

safely mentioned that your "wants" or "needs" is not great enough

to drive you to carry out the impossible. That would mean you are

agreeable to permit "fear of rejection" to beat you.

There was this story in the internet of a guy who likes to photograph

sharks. One day, a shark bit off one of his leg. Instead of quitting his

interest of photographing sharks, he return back to the sea again,

after he has recuperated, in order to eliminate his inner fear of sharks.

Sometimes a men may have some physical imperfections like having

a handicap leg or hand, unpleasant face, too thin, too fat etc. These

could possibly decrease his self-esteem. He might be very nervous

about his "faults" and he may be reasoning why should a gal want

him.

There was this research by a university professor who wished to

survey whether people are really that observant. So for the duration

of his lectures, he arrange for a man putting on a king-kong costume to

wander pass behind him while he lecture.

That king-kong actually, walk about 4 times behind him in the course

of his 30 minutes lecture. At the end of the lecture, he tested his

students and ask them to raise up their hands if they ever came

across anything bizarre. The experiment confirmed that only 30% of

the students witnessed the king-kong while the rest did not.

This test show that many people typically are actually not really

observant. In the event that you are very self-conscious, then you

could possibly be thinking that every eyes is upon you.

Try out sporting a weird dress and enter a market. See for yourself

whether everyone is observing you or not. I can easily reveal to you

for sure, that merely a few will become aware of you while the rest

will probably just ignore you as if you are transparent.

So we must not be so self-conscious of ourselves and let it threaten

our capability to communicate with others. I have observed that

several handicapped people and fat folks having a fine family life.

So if they will be able to do it, why not you?

by: david888

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