subject: Sugardaddy Dating Advice: 5 Questions To Avoid During A Date [print this page] In our first date with our potential matches we would want to know all that we could about them. It's human nature, a natural instinct- to know someone and find out if we are indeed a match. But sometimes we get carried away. We ask the wrong questions that can turn a great date into a dud. There are great conversation starters but there are also those that can ruin it.
There are questions that should not be bought up on your first dates- and even the following dates. Here are the questions that you should steer clear off.
1. "How old are you again?"
You get distracted by that odd grey hair on their head. You see those wrinkles on their forehead. Even when it's just a curious question- or innocent one- don't. Really, it's not worth it to bring it up. You don't want to offend your date. This is a rude questions. If you are interested in them then age would be no issue for you.
2. "What do you like to do when in bed?"
Your date is going great, the wine keeps coming, talking is just easy- then the sexual tension builds up. It's really quite tempting to start that kind of conversation but hold back. Remember that even though your date seems like the most wonderful person you know, he or she is still a stranger to you. Alcohol does help in boosting your confident but don't risk it while on a date. They might get the wrong idea about you and it can ruin whatever bond that you have formed. They may think you only want that "one thing" and all those other things you did is just an act. If things end up really well with you, then you'll get there.
3. "When's your wedding timeline?"
First dates should always be light and fun, flirting and enjoyable conversations. To keep the energy up and going then try to steer away from topics like wedding plans and future relationship plans. If you are asking it out of curiosity then try ans stop yourself- hold your tongue. If you want to know then cover it up, ask in a subtle manner and don't be too direct about it. Long term relationship questions are not something that people want to share to strangers. You can look into their job, living arrangements, lifestyles and you'll get an idea on your date. If he or she is suitable for a long term partner or not.
4. "Hey, can I borrow some money?"
Even if you are in a tight situation, asking to borrow money from your date is just crazy. I mean, no one likes to talk about money on the first date anyways. No matter how comfortable you feel, though you feel the "trust and respect" forming in your bond. They are still strangers and so are you to them. Asking money is like telling them that you are incapable of looking out for yourself which is a great turn-off.
5. "We must be soulmates!"
Hoping that your date is "the one" is not a bad thing. But breathing down their necks, and taking things to the extreme is just creepy. Telling them that they are the "soulmate" that you have been waiting for, just makes them feel uncomfortable. People need time to work out their feelings, do that and they will do the same. They'll be able to articulate their feelings when the time comes.
Stay away from these first date, cringe-worthy conversations and save yourself from the embarrassment. Want to have a second date? Then remember these tips.
