subject: What Women Should Avoid To Keep Healthy Relationship? [print this page] It's an eternal mystery for women to know the heart of a man. A big majority of women spend a good part of the day (and men are no exception here when it comes to thinking about the other sex) thinking what men really want. It's a question that continues to nag them, especially if their boyfriend has been seeing another woman of late. Though there is no denying that men love women who are supportive, caring, respectful, loving and attractive, there is much more to a healthy relationship. And this is what you are going to learn about in this article.
What is wrong with being with men you like?
One of the major downsides of being with a man you really like is that you try to act on the verge of obsequiousness. There is no harm is dressing sassy, talking about yourself and be ready to jump in a relationship, there are often times when women take it too far. And all this trouble for what? Only to please him?
Now if you are the above mentioned type, never let this thing out of your mind: a relationship, no matter how old, is always all about maintaining a delicate balance and compromise.
This follows that though men will appreciate any open woman, they are more likely to be drawn to women who are both sympathetic and compassionate.
So while you may genuinely be the one who is nice to everybody around her, playing this facet so often and being ultra-nice to him may do the opposite of what you want and you may end up turning him off.
Therefore the first thing to know about keeping your man to you is knowing how you are going to treat men.
Take it as a warning sign if any of your friends have ever told you that you are too eager to help, or too nice. You have to realise that overeagerness often makes the other people feel uneasy and that's not what you are looking for. Am I right?
The upshot is, keep in mind that you don't have to show you are desperate. This will have a detrimental effect on your relationship. In fact being nice is one thing. But you can be sure nothing will good out of it if it's taken for desperation. That is sure shot relationship killer.
A way to avoid falling in this trap is to keep an eye on him when you do him a favour and notice his response. Does he act awkwardly? Or does he look at you strangely? Or does he even care about it?
To conclude, here are a few pieces of advice:
let it go down slowly.
Don't rush things.
Love is at its best when you let it simmer for a while.
Don't fall into the being nice love trap. That will ruin your relationship.
