subject: Mending Your Broken Heart By Making Her Want You Again [print this page] There are plenty of ways that you can try to mend your broken heart that got that way because the woman you were dating decided that she no longer wanted to be your girlfriend. You can indulge yourself in self pity and just feel bad about the way things turned out. That probably would not do you any good and it probably would leave you worse off than you were before you ever met her, so that is most likely not the choice that you would want to make. You could decide that you are going to hate her now, but you know deep down inside that you will never really feel that way about her. Feelings like that can only linger for so long before you end up thinking about being with her again. You can move on and get yourself into a new relationship, but you know that you won't be able to find a woman who was as good as the one you were just with.
Or, what you can do is learn to mend your broken heart by making your ex girlfriend feel as though she wants to be with you again.
I'd be willing to take a guess and say that this is the way that you really would like to be able to handle this situation. This is the way that you would like to have things pan out for you. Life would be so much better if you had her back in your life, right? So, what are you going to have to do to make her want you again?
The answer is so simple, it gets overlooked by most men who are in your position. It's too easy, and they don't think that it will work. Usually, it does though. What is that answer that is so simple?
It's that you have to win her over the way that you did way back when you are her had first bumped shoulders and got to know one another. Back when you had no history together. That can be hard to do, considering you do have history together, and you do have a recent break up that could make things a little tense between you and her. It all comes down to you being able to forget about all of that, forget about all of the pain that you feel from the break up and you being able to approach her as if you had a clean slate.
From there, you do the same things that you would do with any other woman. You flirt with her, you play hard to get for a little bit. You make her feel sexual tension when she is around you. In short, you make her feel like she has a crush on you again. Do that and you will probably be surprised at how excited and eager she will be when you ask her to hang out again. And as long as you can get her to do that, then you should be able to advance things to where you and her are dating again. Just one last note, though. Don't blow it the second time around.
