subject: Is it really possible to find a wife abroad? [print this page] There two ways of seaching for a wife in other countries and both of them are via the Internet.
The first way is using free dating sites and the second is using international marriage and dating agencies. The last ones usually position themselves to be trustworthy and those that can guarantee your safety. Now we are going to discover all the truth about this kind of sites and I am sure you will be shocked finding yourself being a puppet in somebody's hands.
So let us start from the first way of finding a wife - free dating sites like freepersonals.ru for an example.
You are afraid that international agency may cheat you and just take money from you all the time? Believe me - if someone wants to cheat you he or she will do that! And free international dating sites are not exceptions. Such sites are overcrowded with scammers. You must have heard a lot about them but you are sure you haven't been their victim yet? You can be sure you already have met them and talked to them if you ever have visited and used those sites.
I personally know the girl who is an interpreter and who makes money for living using free dating sites. She download pictures stolen from all over the Internet or from other dating sites, or use the photos of her friends or her own ones (though she is married) and writes to men. Of course she can't make money from correspondance - that is a kind of investement from her side, but she will make up leeway during men's visit to Ukraine.
The second way is even more interesting.
You must have heard about such international dating agencies like Anastasia, 1st International Marriage Network, Hanuma, Elena's models and lots of others. All of them are scammers! And I will prove it to you.
Look at the ladies who are represented on those sites - hot, calling, seductive. You can see their words about themselves starting from "Hotti is looking for her prince" (girl's touching her breast), "I very active girl:)" (girl standing in a "special" pose at the tree), "I CAN ...I Can...I can...;-)" (girl is sitting in her lingerie in a pose of a rider), "I know what the man needs" (just breast at the photo). Now tell me - don't you find that to be rediculous? But you, dear gentlemen, are so rediculous sometimes when such phrases and photos manage to seduce you.
Do you believe those ladies are real? Yes, that is possible, but in such case they put their profiles on those sites to make money and to get presents from you. Or agencies put them on those sites and write seductive characteristics and put sexy photos to enlarge correspondence. Sometimes girls even don't know how agencies use their photos.
Even if lady is serious, she is usually very selective about men and will write only those who she likes. Her chances are minimal, because competition is great and handsome and young men usually have a great number of ladies to choose from. So agencies write to different men who are far away from girl's expectations without letting her know about that. What about meeting? - you may ask. There are two variants:
1) lady doesn't want to meet that men, but she has to (because there was a correspondence), so agency gives her money for meeting;
2) lady doesn't want to meet him and doesn't want to take money, so agency invents a story when girl's grandmother who lives in Belgorod (for instance) gets very ill and being a good granddaughter girl goes to visit her. She can't leave her granny and invites a man to come there, but there's a problem - he needs visa for that, because Belgorod is in Russia. Oops.
There are lots of similar stories and all of them are elementary simple, still, men believe them.
There's a big social network in Russia and Ukraine that is look like Facebook - vkontakte.ru. Lots of people put their photos in the albums of this network and even don't suspect that their photos can be used. That is very, very sad.
Very often ladies are already married, but they still are present on dating sites. The reason is that pretty girls mean money for the agency. Agencies don't want to lose their income just because a girl got married.
If you go to Ukrainian job searching sites to the directory of translators/interpreters you will find lots of job prepositions from marriage and dating agencies. But they propose not translator's job.
1) They propose girls to put their profiles to the agency, to write to men and to get money for that. Also they propose to get some extra money for meetings with those men. So if you meet with Ukrainian or Russian girl you can see she is real (she really exists!), but you can't know for sure whether she's not paid for the meeting and whether her intentions are real.
2) The next job opportunity for girls with knowlege of English is writing to men as distant translators. Each translator has a number of girls and he/she writes (not translates, but just writes letters) to men and gets money for that.
3) One more job opportunity is working as client manager. Sounds great, but...these people search for new girls among their friends and environment. They seduce girls by extra money they could get having put their profile to the agency's base.
4) There's a special job offer - working in chats for girls with initial language knowleges, beautiful appearance is required. So those ladies you meet on the chats are also paid - 99,9% of them, be sured!
Have you ever analysed the words that agencies write about their principles and guarantees?
That is pure water, nothing else. There's no any guarantees at all!
Pasport data? Well, easily solved problem for agencies.
If lady tends to cheat men and for this reason she puts her profile to the site of course she will provide agency with her passport data. If lady is just from somewhere in the Internet agency will assure you she is serious and they have her passport data, but they won't show it to you, because that will "break her personal rights".
There was once an interesting story. A guy who worked as a client manager in the agency I used to work in brought photos and passport copies of his girlfriends and took money for his "work". Those girls didn't know and will never known about that. They will never know that they are corresponding with some men and that their grannies in Belgorod are ill.
So as you can see nor you, nor that small number of ladies who are really serious are not protected at all.
Please, be careful with such sites as anastasiadate.com, 1st international, army-of-brides.com, elenasmodels.com and lot of others. You should know that in that business there's no honest agencies at all!!!!!
