subject: I've been There [print this page] Isn't it nice when talking to someone you just meet who has been in the same situation as you have been in? Doesn't that just open an entirely different aspect of the meet? Doesn't it just make you trust this person more and have you open up even more to this person whom you may have just met? By "Being There" or relating to a past event of the person it helps to build trust and rapport. And we plan to do just that towards are target of interest' TOI.
When you have been in a similar situation or place the TOI has been in, and you talk about this it opens the door to her gaining more trust towards you. She will start seeing you as more genuine and not just after one thing.
It also will place higher value on you in her eyes.
I've Been There is a highly powerful way of gaining her trust, and understanding. It is done when the conversation is on a more serious note, and the tone is more serious. It is not done during a joking or funny time. Like don't be using this as your both watching Monday Night Football in the bar.
As the relationship is being reinforced through being unpredictable and through forms of story telling and "Extreme Indicators of Interest" XIOIs. It will lead to build up trust, and that is her trusting you. A great way to build trust is through an "I've Been There. An "I've Been There" is relatively easy and effective, and maybe one of the easiest things to do to build up trust and to increase your seduction.
When you execute this you want to do it in a sincere manner. And if try to be honest in doing so. It's not difficult, for we have really all at one time in our lives experienced the same feelings and moods.
Examples
Her: "I felt so terrible about getting some road rage yesterday."
You: "I've Been there. I know just how you feel..sometime I just go to pull over and calm down."
You: "Are you scared to walk by cemeteries at night?"
Her: "Yeah they give me the Chills."
You: "Been there myself, my skin literally turns pale white (even do some body language, like shivering)
Do you get the idea? Its pretty simple and yet so overlooked, it really does place the relationship into the next gear. And overall it is easy to do and will as you use it more and more become second nature.
