subject: Divorce And Remarriage [print this page] It is a global phenomenon and the rate of divorces is increasing day by day. Even on a slight provocation couples are approaching courts for divorce. Social scientists are attributing this changed situation to many aspects like the fast life, increased interest in physical pleasures, decrease in moral values etc. However, what the life will be after divorce is another issue that many people will never think about at the time of divorce. Many family lawyers in Southampton have a number of cases to show that the life after divorce is even worse in many cases.
Divorce solicitors of Southampton also agree with this. They take the help of an old saying once bitten twice shy to prove this. Naturally the married life should be a troubled one to go for a divorce. Some of the divorcees try to remarriage after the divorce. Here the bad experiences of their past will be hidden in their minds and they will approach every situation with that experience. This will certainly upset the mood of the new partner and again there is a chance for a troubled married life. The people who got bitten once will take extra precautions to avoid such situation in future. This will certainly make them more cautious in handling financial matters and this precaution may mistake by the partner as lack of confidence in them and it may lead for further revolts.
Anyway, the family lawyers of Southampton are of the opinion that, once the divorce has been awarded by the court, the people take enough interval to get rid of the troubled past from their mind before going for a remarriage. This will help them to become normal and can behave normally with the new partner. It is always dangerous to get married immediately after the damages. More than the emotional aspects, it will create a lot of doubts in the minds of society about integrity. They may think that you have opted for a separation from your old relation to marry your new partner. In a society where we will have to keep certain level of decency, it will not work in favour of you. So, it is always better to take a short break in between the divorce and remarriage.
Divorce solicitors of Southampton also advices the newly married couples to adjust with each other to the possible extent. According to them, divorce is not a simple matter. It involves a lot of complications legally and emotionally.
