subject: Ways To Win Your Man Back [print this page] Breaking up with your boyfriend can hurt terribly, nevertheless, you might still desire to win your ex-boyfriend back. Generally, women think that begging their ex-boyfriends can get them to want them back. Even if it works, it is better to do it properly. This will in some way prevent a terrible case of psychological breakdown, in case you fail to win him back.
So, how do you do it? First of all, you must make a decision on whether you really want to get back togehter with him or not. It is wrong to spend time re-igniting a relationship with someone who you really do not want to be with. For that reason, reflect on the moments you spent together, the good ones and bad. Do not focus on the fun memories only, but also the things that you don't like about him or your relationship and the times you weren't together. This should make you realize that you have to be with him as he completes your life, and he plays an important role in your life.
When that is done, you must think about the reasons why you broke up. Did you fall out of love? Did he think you were not giving in the relationship? If there are signs that he seriously considered ending the relationship and he took every opportunity to tell you that, then there's so much work for you to do. Something must have changed along the way and unless you find out what went wrong, you might not get him back. It may help if you identify the source of the problem first before you contact him. For instance, if both of you did not have time for each other, you should be willing make a compromise on that.
When you are certain that your relationship can be renewed based on the realizations you've made, then you should discuss it with him. Tell him you are ready to give the relationship a second chance. Most people think that by acknowledging you are wrong implies you are weak, but as far as your relationship is concerned, one of you should make the initial move towards a reconciliation. Talk about the problems in your relationship and what you think could help fix them. Remind him of the good times you shared and how both of you grew to be better persons after every single problem. Then ask him about his thoughts, and whether he is willing to also give it a second chance. However, do not be too demanding. Rather, allow him some time to think about it.
Alternatively, here are things that must not cross your mind. Do not follow your man around. Remember, he's hurting just like you. Let him have a breather for a while and during this period, it is best not to communicate with your ex. Do not try to get back together unless you have ironed out the issues. Let the fresh start be filled with love, respect, and communication. Do not get him back just because you happen to be scared of being on your own. Be sure you really want him back.
