subject: Get My Ex Girlfriend To Come Back To Me - When She Does Not Want To Talk To You Take It As A Hint [print this page] You have tried to do all that you can to get your ex girlfriend to speak to you. You have been cordial, at least, in your opinion that is the way that you have come across to her. You have tried to show her that you are not going to always talk about getting back together, as you suspect that would just drive her away from you. And you would be right to think that way. Still, it seems as though your ex girlfriend just does not want to talk to you right now. If that is the case and it does not matter what you do, she is still acting as if she does not want to converse with you, then you maybe need to take that as a hint.
I know that it can be hard to think that your ex girlfriend is acting this way and you think that you are doing all of the right things. It makes you feel like you deserve to get her attention and you might be right about that. Still, it is entirely up to her whether or not she does give you that attention and if she is just showing you that she does not want to communicate with you at all right now - then you might as well assume that there is nothing that you can do to change that.
The real answer right now is for you to work on doing things that will make you less dependent on needing to have her around. To do things that make you feel less like you need to be with her again. No matter what, there are always those circumstances that you just cannot control and one of them is the actions of your ex girlfriend. So, what you may want to do instead of trying to work your way back into her circle, is to build up your own. And by that, I do mean that you should probably try and get a new woman to focus your attention on.
Break ups do happen and a part of life is learning how to deal with them. You don't want to end up being that guy that sends his ex girlfriend text messages in the middle of the night, unable to let go of a woman who does not want to get back with you right now, do you?
You have to take her silence and her lack of desire to communicate with you as a sign that this might be the end of the relationship. And that is okay. There are always options that you have and one of them is always to go out and meet someone else. It's not that hard to do and who knows - in time your ex girlfriend may warm up to you again.
