subject: Universal Blunders Folks Make Whenever Getting Back With Their Ex [print this page] A lot of couples play the game of breaking up and then making up, but they never seem to learn from their mistakes and still make them again repeatedly. These errors are the ones that are going to prevent you from reuniting and may lead to an ultimate final break up.
You run a greater chance of getting back together with your ex if you can follow these simple tips. I will present here some things that you should make attempts to avert doing.
Don't Beg Your Ex
You will seem desperate to your ex if you beg them to give you another chance after you have broken up. Problems can arise when you are in a relationships with a needy person, so many people avoid such relationships. Begging for someone to be your partner again is just humiliating. Whatever you do, don't resort to begging after you lose your ex because you will lose respect as well.
Never Let Your Pride Take Control
If you expect to have another go with your ex than the first thing for you to do is to put your ego aside. For things to get better with the ex, at least one member of the couple has to be the bigger person and not let the ego take over. It is impossible to strike a fair deal with someone who insists on having things their way. After one person humbles themselves, the other person typically does the same.
Being Jealous Leads to more Arguments
Hollywood's idea, albeit a flawed idea, of how to fix a break up is stirring the other person's jealousy by ensuring that he or she sees you out and about with someone else. While it may seem like by doing this you will get your ex back, all you will really do is make him or her feel more anger toward you and you will not end up getting your ex back. This act is intentional, and chances are, your ex will figure out that you are doing this on purpose to make him jealous. As soon as it occurs, you should lose all hope of getting back together again.
Try to avert times when confrontation is imminent
Arguing with your ex is not the wisest method to get them to return to you. Breaking up can be an extremely painful experience for both parties, ensure you both talk about the main issues which are causing emotional upset in order to try and get back together, avoid being too confrontational, particularly if you are demanding an apology from your ex for the hurt that might have caused the break up. Bear in mind that you are trying to rekindle your feelings, not to play the blame game. Remove the hostility from your tone to avoid any misunderstandings.
