subject: 3 Possible Ways You Could Be Caught Having An Affair [print this page] Despite the serious consequences that could happen to a person if they're caught having an affair, a lot of married men still choose to cheat on their wives.
Perhaps, they don't consider the idea that they can get caught. They are overly confident of their "supposed" abilities to evade possible detection that they failed to exercise due diligence in their extramarital activities, which could cause their own downfall.
A lot of people, with this kind of belief, suffer greatly for their arrogance. After all, keeping a successful extramarital affair takes hard work and little creativity.
Oftentimes, in order to avoid getting caught, you must know the possible ways you can get caught. Below are the most common ways people get caught having an affair.
1. Your phone and your PC
Your phone and your PC may be your personal belongings, but this does not mean your spouse won't try to look at them; especially when you're asleep or doing something else. If you're not careful, your spouse may discover a Website you've been to or even passwords to private email accounts used for affair websites.
You would be lucky if your spouse questions you about anything she discovers in your PC or phone right away because you might be able to invent a believable tale in your defense. But what if she pretends not to have seen anything? Then hires a private investigator to follow you around?
In time your secret will be made known and you'll have to suffer the consequences of your actions. That is why you must be careful about the things you store in your PC and in the same way, you should not give your personal number to your affair partner.
Remember that call logs stay in your phone memory unless you delete them. And in case you use the services of any married affair sites to find women to date, you should erase the history of your browser every time you are finished visiting the sites.
2. Mismanaging your affairs
Before you've even thought of cheating, you've followed a certain and definite schedule; however, all of that may change with the entry of another person into your life. Depending on how well you balance your day-to-day activities, you might have difficulty pulling it off without having yourself greatly stressed.
Normally, when people are under heavy stress, they do really stupid things. Remember that you need all your wits with you, so that you will not commit mistakes that may lead to the discovery of your affairs.
Another thing is the money that you'll spend in order to pursue your extramarital affairs. You need a bit of careful financial planning here. You can't just use your credit cards the way you always do with your normal financial transactions, like when you pay for a hotel room (unless you are very certain your wife will not know about it).
Remember that credit card companies do send their clients monthly financial statements and it's very dangerous if your spouse gets to these documents faster than you do. When you pay for anything related to your extramarital affairs, pay in cash, and of course, never keep the receipts.
3. Your affair partner
As they say, it takes two to tango. The success of your extramarital affairs depends not only on your own efforts but your affair partner's as well. You must make sure that you only get involve with mentally and emotionally stable women, that is, if you want a long-term arrangement.
This way, you can be assured that whatever precautions and limitations you set, your partner follows them to the letter. Also, by having a set of rules to follow, you can lessen the chance of becoming attached to your partner, and they to you.
People who become too attached to the affair partner will most likely put the secret in jeopardy. However, just to be safe, try having short-term extramarital affairs. By not sticking with just one or two partners, you keep your identity well-guarded while at the same time keep the state of your affairs extremely exciting.
Everyone makes mistakes- this is an age-old adage that reminds us all that we are not infallible. However, when you're having an affair, you should do your best not to make a single mistake.
