subject: Text Your Ex Back - 4 Tips To Follow [print this page] Going through a break-up is a challenging thing, especially if it was because of a silly argument that may have been prevented. While there are break-ups that are good for you, there are also break-ups that can be avoided by simply trying to bridge the gap that has set you and your 'ex' apart.
Let's be realistic - no breakup is permanent unless you allow it to be. While numerous dating and relationship tips encourage you to not text your ex back after choosing to separate, there is actually a pretty good chance of being able to steer the relationship back on track if you do.
Here are a couple things that you must bear in mind if you're trying to text your ex and expect it to actually work:
1. Apologize - no matter how much you say that it wasn't your fault that the break up occurred, a choice such as that is not always a single person's decision. The choice to cut off a partnership in some cases is shared, although the level of mutuality might differ.
2. Reassess - if you're going to text your ex just to inform him/her exactly how you miss them. But, that alone is not going to be enough to win them back.
Try reassessing the partnership with them by looking back at the good times you've had and all the problems you've overcome together. This will not only enable you to realize where you may have failed, but it will definitely enable you and your ex to see the things that were right in the relationship.
3. Open up - oftentimes, relationships fail since couples usually tend to keep things bottled up. So, if you text your ex to talk it out, then sincerely ask them what the problem was or where the both of you went wrong. Doing this can increase the chance of healing hurt feelings while trying to find ways to change or rectify the situation at the same time.
4. Care (unconditionally) - your ex didn't just want to be with you for your looks or your money (you'd know if this was the case or not), so texting your ex with the usual care and love you used to offer them, also without any connected strings, will allow them to reevaluate your importance in their life, and ideally win them back.
Making a relationship work out is never ever uncomplicated, but if you brave the current of adversity, with faith and courage, even in the darkest of hours love for each other can prevail. A wise person once remarked that what God has bound together through love, no man is able to set apart.
