subject: She Cheated On You And Now You Feel Like It Will Happen Again [print this page] I think that it is safe to assume that most guys do not expect nor want to ever find out that a woman they are dating has cheated on them, but we all know that it does happen and it is something that you may have to deal with. When you find out that a woman you trusted broke that trust and did the unthinkable and did cheat on you, that can make you feel like it is bound to happen again. What usually happens when a guy feels that way is... he feels like there is no point in trying to work things out with her or in trying to find someone else, because he kind of assumes that ti is just going to play out all over again and he does not want to have to deal with that.
It's natural to feel that way to some extent. We don't wan to make ourselves vulnerable to a woman and then find out that she has totally violated that and went running around behind our backs. However, you also don't want that to allow you to feel like every woman out there is going to cheat on you or that there is no point in dating. Just because one woman does it to you - that does not mean that all of them are going to do that or that you brought it upon yourself.
If She Cheated on You and You Don't Know What to Do... Pay Attention -
The best thing that you can do is to work on understanding that it does not mean that it is going to happen again. I don't mean that you should necessarily trust the one that cheated on you, that may not be the right thing to do. I mean that you should not make the assumption that all women are going to cheat. They are not. Not only that, you want to deal with the fact that you are probably hurt by the fact that she would run around on you and that is something that you need to get over before you can get back out there and feel like you can trust another woman.
There are plenty of reasons why some women cheat and not all of them have to deal with you or have any real indication of any shortcomings on your part. Some women just use cheating as a way to handle their issues and if that is the case, then you are better off without her and you should assume that the next woman you meet will not behave in that way at all. If you do feel like it had something to do with you, then you may also want to consider the possibility that there may be some more things that you need to know about attracting a woman and keeping her feeling attracted to you so that it does not happen again.
