subject: Forced Loneliness [print this page] Loneliness makes a man destitute of everything. Being a negative thing, it always tends to make you unhappy at all times. Things get tarnished when you start feeling loneliness through one reason or the other. Forced loneliness makes you awful in your appearance and in leading your life in a good way.
Holidays at Events
Holidays at various nation-wide festivals and events lead you to the feeling of loneliness. Things are always problematic if you are deficient of friends, are suffering from some disease, have no relations near and so on. It may also occur when you are stranger at a new place. This type of happening may lead you to great problems of forced loneliness in the sense that you are bound to live alone as you are far away from your family due to higher studies or job and are located offshore. This sort of situation restricts you to stay at home.
Perfect forced loneliness
True forced loneness is a situation when a person is in some sort of compulsion to stay at a place for some days, months or even years. It may be the prison, a compulsion due to your certain responsibilities relating to kids or parents or while helping some destitute and so on. If a dear one has been suffering from certain disease and you are forced to stay in some hospital or home for the purpose caring him or her, you feel really boring as all the activities with friends and society are finished and you have to stay with the patient.
Forced Loneliness at College
When at college you may be forced to choose subjects that are exactly against your aptitude. You are forced by your guardian or parents to do so. It again constitutes the forced loneliness. You may then be among your classmates and friends and yet be alone. This type of loneliness is visible among the college students and it has its own aftermath.
Optimum Level Loneliness
Forced loneliness is the loneliness which is of the optimum level. You stand with no chance other than staying at home or at the provided place without any option to go out from there. Even if you have some personal matters of life, you won't be able to move. This type of loneliness will bring hopelessness, waywardness and irritation in your life. Everything will seem to be as going to the dogs and you will be in a real trouble as every other relation in society will be at jeopardy.
So, forced loneliness can be really dangerous for your mental and bodily health and may lead you to every wrong thing in life. The only way to cope with the situation is to compromise with your circumstances by teaching and dictating yourself that this type of loneliness is there to show you new aspects of life and newer dimensions of man's being. It will also how you new ways of understanding life and dealing with its various matters with prudence when you are left alone by compulsion.
