subject: Gay Loneliness [print this page] People around the world are of many sorts where the nature of one is different from others. There is aloneness on the cosmic level and, the same way; most of the gay people also feel a type of loneliness that is called gay loneliness. This problem is but natural for them where they might be able to change it with great effort.
Relation with Normal People
Normal people have a trend of sexual urge for the opposite sex and the number of such people in the world is more than that of the gay people. Heterosexual people don't like the homosexual or gay people where they have some bad words and bad feelings against them. So the gay people cannot have good relations with normal people as both have differences of opinion about one's free will and liberty. It leads them to remain aloof from others as they won't tolerate their activities.
Homosexual Gays
If the gays are homosexuals, the people around them won't let them live together, as laws in most of the countries won't allow them to live jointly. If there are regulations in some countries, which allow them to live together, the societal norms, customs, and the pivotal persons of the society will make it certain that they go out of society to continue this sort of activity. The result will again be the gay men's loneliness.
Bisexual Gays
This type of gays may have relations with both sexes where they also feel loneliness and solitude as things would be wrong with them when dealing with the society. They will feel solitude as they won't find partners all the time.
Loneliness Due To Absence of Care
Man and woman are naturally equipped with body parts that fulfill each other's needs. The gay person is not satiating sexual urge in the natural way. So the ultimate result is that a male will have to live with male and a female with female. Both of them might be satiating each other's desire but without natural affection that opposite sexes may have for each other. Thus, solitude is their way of life.
Forums and Virtual Conversation
Gay men are advised to join some gay forums so that they could make an end to their loneliness. Life must have a purpose with every human being. If this purpose is lost, he no longer lives and he is lost in the depths of the deepest caverns. So, it's better for gay men to give themselves a direction to live. They may have to talk with their friends through virtual top-notch means. For this purpose, they may make use of computing devices, VoIP technology, virtual meeting software, and so forth.
Everybody in this world has a right to live and same is the case with gay men. Loneliness may take them towards a suicidal action but they should refrain from it by joining various forums. Either homo-sexual or bisexual, they must be respected by the society where they are given the right to live their life as they wish.
