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subject: Do you think that breaking up with a particular person was the right thing to do? [print this page]


To all of the men out there, when you can't stop thinking about a person that you've left and realized that it was a big mistake, then you need to think and re-evaluate the situation and try to do everything in your power to woo that baby of yours back.

But ladies, if a guy really wants to be with you, he will go out of his way to make it happen regardless if he broke up with you or not.

Know that:It will be with no drama whatsoever at all which only means that you're the exception instead of the rule in the relationship and he will go all out of his way to always make you happy.

But know that: With the unexpected declaration of love that we probably won't ever notice the signs of who really wants to be with us for us and who is just out there to be with you for you and just framing yourself for something better for the future in a relationship and this is something I got from a movie.

To all the men that's out there, have you even broke up with someone and realized it was a huge mistake and even after you've introduced your girlfriend to everyone and said she was the one for you and the chemistry was great but at the same time there was some jealous shrew that lied to you and told you stories that she wasn't good for you when you've invested alot of time with each other and you confessed your love to her and told her she was the one and you started spending a lot of time at her place and she ended up confessing her love to you and gave you all the affection that you wanted and needed and never disrespected you and she even told you that she loved you and was always there for you no matter if the chips are down.

I mean, it doesn't get any better than this. C'mon men wake up cause you shouldn't break up with a good woman like that especially if she was always there for you.

I personally would love for a guy to tell me what's what if he was breaking up with me and was no longer interested in me because that's the right thing to do because what goes around comes around cause you wouldn't want to be in a situation where you can't close in a relationship and leaving her with no closure if you do break up with her with no explantion cause not only will it damage her emotionally, but it will damage you as well and you won't be able to live with yourself at all and you'll forever be damaged.

But did you also know that the way that you break up with someone without any closure is going to happen to you, but worse because what you might love the most, might not love you back the way that you love them all for the simple fact what was staring you in your face in the first place was the one for you all along that could have taken you far and been the one that would have went the whole distance with you, but you left her with a broken heart and left her damaged.

My ex boyfriend of seven and a half years broke up with me for some old train wreck and I still don't know why, but it's all good because what goes around comes right back around but I look on the bright side to all of this. Even though he did what he did I know that it will definitely come back to him in the worst way and what he did to me will definitely come back to bite him cause Karma is not a joke and what you do to others will definitely come back to you so if he thinks he's happy with that old train wreck, then more power to him cause it's cheaper for her to keep him anyway, cause I can ssure you, he'll be miserable and it's a known fact.

But know this: Of you're with someone special and this person is always there for you and is this person is willing to be with you and go the distance with you all the way, then why should you break up with that person knowing they were the one for you wo really cared about you and everything that you were about and never judged you at all, then that is the one that you should be with cause if you really think about it, if you're with someone special and they're willing to be with you all the way then why break up with them knowing that they would be there for you regardless of what.

Word of advice fellas: Always listen to your heart cause when it comes to matters of the heart, the word love is not a lie.

When it comes to break ups, and relationships will you be the one to listen to your heart knowing that she might have been the one for you or will you just be the kind of man that likes to jilt the one and only love that you're meant to be with.

Do you think that breaking up with a particular person was the right thing to do?

By: nadia cherubin




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