subject: Getting Over The Ex Girlfriend So That You Can Get A New One [print this page] You already know that you have to get over the ex girlfriend to get a new one, you just also know that it is one of those things that you can't just do in the blink of an eye. You can't wake up one day and just snap your fingers and feel like all of the hurt and the pain of her rejection is just gone. You have to find a way to do this, though, because you also know that you do NOT want to be one of those guys that just thinks about the girl that got away while sitting in some drab and depressing bar on a Friday night. Yeah, you really don't want to end up like that guy. What can you do so that you are finally able to get over your ex girlfriend and so that you can get a new one?
It Can Be Easy as 1,2,3...
First thing that you should at least consider is that it is entirely possible that you can get over your ex girlfriend in a short time period. And that it can be easy to do. What I have found is that most of the guys that I have talked to who are finding it hard to get over an ex girlfriend is that they are really afraid to go out and meet someone else. And after the first night that they DO actually go out to a club and do interact with women, they find that it is not that hard at all. They also usually admit that one of the things that was holding them back was that they did not seem to be able to see themselves with another woman. Once they go out and they are around other women and having a good time, that becomes a LOT easier to fathom.
Schooled in the Art of Attraction...
What you are going to have to do is to school yourself in the art of attraction. Of all of the men I have ever met that are really good at attracting women, very few of them get hung up on a woman for too long. Most of them are able to shake off a break up pretty quickly and that has a lot to do with the fact that they know that they can just go out and attract another woman if they wanted to. And the thing is... they really DO have that ability because they know what it is that attracts women. Learn the fine art of attracting women and I doubt that you will get too hung up on the ex girlfriend - especially when you are able to go out to a club and find out that getting attention from women is EASY when you know what to do.
