Many years ago I was sitting in the back ofa Greyhound bus on my way to Richmond, Virginia to visit a friend. At that point in mylife I was jobless as well as car less and felt that I'd pretty much lost everything. All I had at that point was a copy of Norman Vincent Peale's book "The Power of Positive Thinking". While reading the book I started to realize my thoughts were negative, needy and unfocused. Most days they were, "Why isn't this happening for me" or "I don't have enough" and "Why does everybody else have more?" My driver's license said Rick, but it should have said VICTIM. It was everybody else's fault. It was my location. It was my girlfriend. It was my job. It was my boss. It was my cat (I'm so glad I got rid of that cat). Reading the book helped me to see that my thoughts were the foundation of my life. If my life sucked it was because I fundamentally believed it did. If I said to myself, "I'm never going to find the right person," that's exactly what would happen. Why am I always so bored?
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