subject: Breaking The Victim Mind-set [print this page] Many people become jaded, intensely focused on only the negative events of our lives, our frustrations and our disappointments. Such attitude unfortunately produces three adverse effects Firstly, we filter out and completely miss the numerous blessings we should be thankful for, thus perpetuating a cycle of negative focus and frustration.
Secondly, we blame life and luck for the circumstances that have befallen us, believing that the solution will come from somewhere or someone, believing that we do not have is a way out.
Always remember - For every conceivable challenge faced by man, someone has risen above it and found a way out. While many may have given in and resigned to their fates, others have chosen to rise beyond themselves and found solutions to those challenges. Men have risen from abject poverty to incalculable wealth; men have turned their lives around to become more that they ever thought possible. This is not fiction. It is a fact.
Another fact is that irrespective of whatever situation you find yourself at the moment, if such men could have succeeded given the incredible odds, so can you. If a man can rise from poverty to health, so can. If a man can turn his life around to become more than anyone ever thought possible, so can you. All you have to do is know how to apply the power and strength of your mind. Remember, in life we are not judged by our efforts but by results we produce. Having tried is not good enough. Almost having achieved a dream is not the same as living the dream. the power to reverse our fortune consequently, we reinforce a victim mindset as we constantly relive such experiences in our minds, becoming anchored to the toxic emotions they elicit within us. Unable to move forward. Unable to find solutions.
Thirdly and worst of all, we lose the connection to the immense power of our minds to constructively resolve the situation. Believing that there is no solution or a way out, we resign ourselves to our fate. This does not have to be the case. There is a solution. There
Becoming unstoppable necessitates choosing to use the power of your mind to focus intensely on your goals and dreams, choosing to abstain from toxic thoughts and focusing on empowering thoughts, choosing to respond to lifes challenges with an optimistic mindset instead of a victim mind-set.
Becoming unstoppable makes the difference between living a life of amazing success, indifferent mediocrity or complete failure is a choice. You choose.
