subject: How To Shock Him When He Asks For A Break [print this page] You hear of it happening to friends but, you feel your relationship is solid. That is why it is such a shock to you when it happens. But, if you want to keep your man, you have to shock him when he asks for a break. Learn how to make your boyfriend feel as if he is the one being dumped.
One of your first thoughts will be to wonder why he stopped loving you. The truth is, he still loves you very much. Love not die overnight. You just have to make him realize he still loves you and that might take a shock. When your boyfriend asks you for a break, you will have to call on all of your strength. Put a smile on your face and tell him you agree. If you can manage it without crying, say that you have been considering the same thing for quite a while.
This will shock him and make him feel like he is being dumped. Your boyfriend was all prepared to see you start crying and begging him to change his mind. Instead your actions have blind sided him and he is the one that is feeling the rejection. But the next few days might prove to be an even stronger test of your strength. You will begin to doubt your action and want to call him and apologize. If you do, he will see that you were faking it and you might lose him for good.
Right now, you are in control and you need to keep it that way. Your next move should be to disappear. Take a vacation or visit friends and relatives that live out of town. That will give you a chance to get a grip on your emotions and your ex boyfriend will be wondering what happened to you. Since you seemed so eager to get rid of him, he will think you could be with another man.
