subject: Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back [print this page] Or a better question is what are you doing that could be not obtaining the result you desire?
Think you're being a desperado? Are you calling, pleading, demanding, sulking, pestering. . . need I continue.
What you're currently doing is not working as a method of getting your ex girlfriend back.
Can I suggest that you have applied no real method whatsoever, but merely acted in an over emotional, instead of careful way.
That's the cause of your trouble, right there.
You need a plan. You cannot go about this half baked and needing to win at all costs, because you know within your heart of hearts that you will never get what you are after if you don't work out a logical way of getting there.
So, stop the feeling, as difficult as that is and start on the thinking.
Believe me, it does get easier the more you rehearse it.
Stop calling your ex and getting over emotional.
Start spending much more time taking care of yourself. Because unless there is a great relationship within yourself, your external relationships are not going to be ideal either.
Once you've given yourself some breathing space and been kind to yourself, then you can begin thinking about what you need to do to get that understanding with your ex girlfriend back to what it ought to be.
