subject: Desire To Be The Man Of Every Woman's Desires? [print this page] One thing which you'll quickly notice; or that you may already know all too well from personal experience is that not all men know how to attract women. There are some men who seem to have some sort of quality which brings the opposite sex running - and others who seem to never be able to catch a break when it comes to attracting a potential romantic partner.
However, even if you have always been unlucky in love, there is hope. While of course every woman is an individual, there are certain qualities which help men to pick up women. If you've always wanted to know how to attract women, keep reading for a few tips which may help you to cultivate these qualities in yourself.
One thing which women often seek in men is the ability to be a provider. This may be on a conscious or an unconscious level and even the most successful of women who definitely don't need (or want) someone to take care of them will find themselves more attracted to a man who shows that he has what it takes to bring home the bacon.
Confidence is perhaps the most important trait that women look for in a potential partner and if you can project self confidence, it will go a long way in helping you to solve the puzzle of how to pick up women. Even if you don't feel confident, you need to act confident; fake it until you make it, as the saying goes.
If you come off as needy and like someone who needs to be cared for rather than someone who can care for others as well as themselves, your chances of attracting a mate are low, to put it mildly.
Another thing that women find attractive in a man is that he takes care of himself. This means physically and mentally. If you're in good health and take good care of yourself, you'll be in a much better position as far as attracting women goes.
Ambition and drive to succeed is a quality which women look for in a man. If you want to know how to attract women, you need to begin setting goals for yourself and pursuing them actively. You don't have to be the most successful person in the world - but women like to see a man who is trying to better himself and his place in the world.
Every woman is different, but these are some of the most important things that a woman will usually be looking for in someone she wants to date or settle down with in the future. If you can work on these qualities and show the world that you're someone who is worth knowing, you'll soon not only know how to attract women, but will actually be attracting a lot of attention from the opposite sex.