subject: Avoid These 5 Things If You Want Your Ex Back [print this page] You have most likely suffered a relationship break up if you are reading this. If you would like to get your ex back, hopefully you read this prior to you do anything. The reason is there are right and wrong ways to go about getting your ex to come back to you.
If you have already been trying and failing all is not lost, you still have a chance. Below are some things you need to avoid doing if you want to get your ex back.
1. Your ex may have dumped you because they need some space. You might think that calling them again and again to persuade them to come back is a good idea but you are mistaken. They would rather have some space to themselves without you in it. They left you for a reason so calling after breaking up can only make your case worse. Give them some time to themselves to cool down.
2. Do not attempt to date their friends after breaking up. If you think it will make them jealous, it will only make you look bad. If you desire to get your ex back why compromise yourself by doing this and putting their friends in a bad position. It would be ok to go out with someone other than their friends to have some fun but do not get serious with them if you expect to get your ex back.
3. If you talk to them do not tell them how devastated you are over the break up. If your ex dumped you do not freak out and tell them you cant go on without them. Your best bet is to act like everything is doing well in your life and you do not miss them. Giving the impression you can continue on without them can show you have confidence in yourself and do not need your ex in your life.
4. Wanting to be with your ex after breaking up. Your best bet is to avoid your ex for the first few weeks. Give yourself and them a chance to cool down and think over what happened. Emotions run high after a break up and trying to work things out too soon can lead to more arguments and fights.
5. Taking them back too soon is probably a bad idea. Even if your ex dumped you and they call you to meet again, you would be wise to hold off. Taking them back too soon would make it easy for them to leave you again, remember they dumped you. You do not want to keep getting brokenhearted time after time. Before you take them back make them work for it, you will be glad they had to earn getting you back in the long run.
There you have it, 5 things you should avoid doing and some suggestions on what you should do. Following this advice will help you get started towards getting your ex back into your life.
