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subject: Why He Won't Tell You How He Feels And What You Should Know To Make The Emotional Connection [print this page]


Do you ever wish you had a deeper level of communication with your boyfriend or husband? You're already skilled at how to attract a man, but have you ever wondered why he won't tell you how he feels?

Many women face the problem of being with a man who won't open up to them emotionally. He's amazing in every way and you love him immensely, but you just can't seem to get inside his heart and mind.

Why is that? Why won't men tell women how they feel?

Read to the end of this article to uncover some of the reasons he won't tell you how he feels. You might be surprised to learn it's not always his fault.

When you're involved with a man who won't tell you how he feels, it can make you suspicious. You start wondering things like:

1.) "Is he playing me or just using me for sex?"

2.) "Is there someone else? Is he cheating on me?"

3.) "Does he have something to hide?"

4.) "I wish he wasn't this way. I'm starting to feel like I can't trust him."

5.) "Did I do something wrong? Is he mad at me?"

When a man won't tell you how he feels, it doesn't mean he's hiding something from you. A man's tendency to withhold feelings isn't because he has a secretive nature.

Rather, it's because society conditions men to be private. Men are supposed to be tough. They aren't supposed to show emotions or reveal their feelings to anyone. A man who does is considered a "sissy" which is one of the worst things a man can be called.

Even from a very young age men are taught never to cry or express their feelings and emotions. They're just supposed to keep it inside and deal with their problems internally.

As they grow older, they simply don't know how to express their feelings and doing so makes them feel extremely uncomfortable. They simply don't possess the same skill set women have when it comes to communicating in this way.

When you understand why men are the way they are, you can begin to approach your man in different ways. You can figure out what men want in a relationship and take the correct route to get into his heart and mind, so you can have everything you need in your relationship with him.

And when you figure out how to crack his code and give him a true outlet for his emotions that he's never had before, you'll be surprised at how he'll open up to you.

by: Derek Blandford




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