subject: How To Win Him Back - It May Be Easier Than You Think [print this page] You probably are like most people and assume that in order to get back an ex boyfriend, that it would take a lot of effort and a lot of time. That may be true for some people, but it does not have to be true for you. When you understand a few things about getting him back that most women do not know, you can get him back with a lot less effort and in a lot less time than it takes most women.
A good way to look at things is to realize that it takes a strategy to get back someone that you have broken up with and if you have the right strategy, then you will be able to take a shortcut towards getting back the man that you love.
Here are some tips that may make it easier than you think to win him back:
1) Most women lose out because they apply too much stress on their ex boyfriend.
No one likes stress, am I right? Well, if you make your ex boyfriend feel too much stress, that's probably not going to make him feel good, will it? And what do most people do when someone is not making them feel good? They try and get as far away from that person as they possibly can. This is what you are going to have to avoid. Too much stress on him and you can be sure that he will want to get as far from you as he possibly can.
2) If you want to get him back, then you need to make him see that you have changed certain things about you.
The easiest way to tempt an old flame to come back to you is to give him a different view of you. It does not take massive changes to make someone see you in a different light. All it takes is a few small changes and you can accomplish that effect if you want.
3) To speed things up, you don't want to avoid making him feel insecure about losing you for good.
If you can make your ex boyfriend feel very insecure about the possibility that you may find someone else to be with, then you can easily speed up the time it takes to win him back. When he feels the luxury that he has all the time in the world to decide whether or not he wants to come back to you, then he will probably use that luxury and take his sweet time.
