subject: Get Him Back - Tips To Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend And Make Him Yours Again [print this page] Loss is one of those things that can really take a long time to recover from. And there are all kinds of losses that you have to deal with in life. Some of those losses can be harder to deal with than others. Like, losing a relationship that meant a lot to you. When you care about someone and the relationship comes to an end, that can be a terrible feeling to have to try and pull through. Luckily, losing someone to a break up is one of the things in life that you can do something about.
To get him back, you are going to have to first look at why things ended the way that they did. There would be no comfort in trying to mend things with him only to have the story play out the same way, would it?
Here are a few tips on how to get him back that can help you to make him yours again:
1) Be realistic about what you expect to happen.
This is something that you really need to look at. Having an idealized vision of what is going to happen will not really serve you well. If you expect that you are going to be able to win him back and make him fall in love the way that it happens in movies and fairy tales, then you are not going to like the reality of it. That's not to say that you should not try and win him back. You should. Just be realistic about the fact that it probably won't play out the way that you might envision it in your mind.
2) Let him know how you feel without getting too mushy about it.
It's okay to let him know how you feel and that you still have some romantic feelings for him. Most men are not going to get all weird about that. What they might find weird is if you get too mushy about the way that you feel. That can make him think that maybe you are too into him, if there really is such a thing.
3) Get him back by being that woman that he knows he can count on.
Most guys like a little bit of routine in their life. They really do. If he knows that you are someone that he can count on, that is a good thing and it can help you to win your way back into his heart.
