subject: Do You Want Him Back? This Might Help You Out [print this page] No one should have to handle the feelings of wanting to be back with someone without having any real hope of it actually happening. You probably don't need me to tell you that it can be a lonely and desperate feeling to want to be back together with someone and not really be able to see any way of that actually happening. To think that you could have such strong feelings for your ex and not be able to find a way to reconcile with him, that could be one of the worst things to have to try and deal with.
You might not have to deal with that, though.
Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back?
Well, if you do, then you want to know what you should avoid doing in order to make sure that things do not become more complicated than they already are. Mistakes can be undone some of the time, but there are some times when you cannot undo what has already been done. One mistake that almost all women make is to allow that desperate feeling that they have to overtake them and overwhelm them. That is not a mistake that you want to make because that is the kind that will cause you to do irrational things that will just drive him further away.
Here is something that may help you out:
Another mistake that women make is that they will often give in to the idea of having sex with their ex boyfriend in the hopes that this will make him want to get back together. Some of the time that may be what happens, but most of the time all it leads to is a lot of free sex for him and a broken heart for you. It may sound funny, but tempting your ex boyfriend while at the same time withholding sex can make it easier for you to win him back.
You know that men look forward to getting intimate with a woman, so withholding it can give him some "incentive" for wanting to mend the relationship and get back together. It also makes sure that you won't get caught up in thinking that there is something there when there really is not. Giving him a little incentive to think about can be a good thing, because if he is already thinking about getting back with you, that will usually be enough to "push" him to make his move.
