subject: She's Playing Hard To Get - How To Get Your Ex Back When She Is Acting Unavailable [print this page] So, you've got your eyes set on your ex girlfriend and no matter what, you are determined to find a way to win her back. There's a snag in your plans, though. It seems as if your ex wants to play hard to get. There are moments when she seems to be coming around to you, and then suddenly... she acts as though she is unavailable. What could this mean for you?
It's almost too cliche to hear about a woman playing hard to get, especially with an ex boyfriend of hers. I'd be surprised if there was an adult woman out there that never did this. How you handle yourself when she is playing hard to get will say a lot about you and it will have a pretty heavy effect on the eventual outcome.
Panic when she plays her little game with you... and you can be sure that in your future... she is not there. Play the hand with poise and you've got a pretty good shot at not just getting her back, but also making her fall harder for you than she did the first time around.
What do you do when she plays hard to get with you?
The first step is to make sure that she really is playing hard to get. I've had men tell me that their ex girlfriend was playing games and then come to find out, there were no games at all. Instead they had gotten pretty clear signals that she had no interest at all in them and they mistook that lack of interest for being a game that she was playing. You have to see a mixture of interest and aloofness to really be able to say that she is indeed playing hard to get.
The next step is to play your own hand. You have to turn the tables around on her a little bit. What you want to do is to get her feeling like maybe you are playing hard to get as well. Do this right and you can get a little dance going on with her and in the end... she will be yours again. The real trick is to keep yourself calm and confident. So, she shows you a little interest and then takes it back. Are you going to let that get you all bent out of shape or are you going to roll with it and maybe even switch it up on her?
Your answer to that will determine whether or not you win her back, or you get your heart broken one more time.
