subject: The Naughty or Nice Bachelorette Party Guide [print this page] If you're a bridesmaid or a close friend of a bride-to-be, chances are that sooner or later you'll be called upon to throw a bachelorette party for her. Depending on the personality and tastes of the bride, this can be a fairly simple and tame affair or an all-out naughty sextravaganza. There are a few things to keep in mind when throwing a bachelorette party for someone, and these will help you decide how you want to approach the event, and whether it'll be naughty, nice or a little of both! Firstly, you'll need to consider the bride-to-be's personalityis she shy or easy to embarrass, or does she love to let her hair down and have a good laugh? Secondly, think about who'll be attendingif her eighty-year-old grandmother or the flowergirl will be there, whipping out the adult toys before dinner may be a no-go, however if it's a girlfriends-only affair you can feel free to go as crazy as you like. Lastly, you need to think about what kind of things the bride-to-be likes to do and try to incorporate these into the occasionafter all, it's about her! If she's into music, why not take her to a karaoke bar so you can sing your hearts out and make fools of yourselves?
DECOR
Nice: If you've decided on nice' for your decor you can find pictures of the happy couple and the bride with her friends and put them up around the place with streamers, balloons and tacky wedding paraphernaliayou can get her a bride-to-be' sash and a veil and have her wear it all night!
Naughty: For naughtier decor think penis-shaped balloons, sexy red lighting and raunchy Kama-Sutra illustrations!
FOOD & DRINK
Nice: You might like to create a theme for the refreshmentsperhaps everything could be pink: pink cupcakes, cocktails and lolliesor alternatively it could be fun to have a certain county's cuisine such as Thai or Indian food.
Naughty: Again, phallic is the name of the game, and there are a surprising amount of penis-shaped foods: cocktail frankfurters, banana splits, Twinkies and icy-poles to name a few! Also, head to any novelty or sex shop and you'll find a range of penis-shaped straws, ice-cube trays, cake tins and drink-bottles to make sure that nothing that isn't shaped like a penis gets past the bride-to-be's lips!
GIFTS
Nice: It's always a good idea to get a bride-to-be some pampering itemsafter all, this is a stressful time for her and some bubble-bath, aromatherapy candles or a massage voucher will most likely be very much appreciated!
Naughty: Care to make sure your bride-to-be has a honeymoon (and marriage) that's hotter than hot? Do her a favour and buy her a vibrator, handcuffs or some body-chocolate for her groom to lick off her bodyshe'll thank you later!
