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It's almost unfair how you are always thinking about him and it seems like he's never really thinking about you. Having a thing for a guy you are not sure even feels the same way is not the best situation to be in. It's much better to be thinking about him and to know that he is thinking about you as well. It's not always that easy, though is it? Trying to get him interested in you can be easy... if you know what will work to set the wheels in motion and put you on his mind.

Here's some advice on how to get him thinking about you:

1) People wonder about those they are curious about... so make him curious about you.

It's human nature to be this way. You can go to pretty much any corner of the world and this is the way that it works. Someone needs to find themselves curious about another person before that person gets on their mind. So, what better way to start then to use a little curiosity to make him wonder about you? To get him feeling that way, a good thing to do is to give just a little hint of your interest and then pull it back a little bit.

2) Use rapport as a way to stay on his mind.

When two people have genuine rapport with one another, then chances are that there minds will often turn to thoughts of each other. Try to find some common ground with the guy you want so that you can have that feeling of rapport with him. The more rapport that the two of you have together, the more likely it is that he will be paying attention to you.

3) Be a little bit bold if you have to.

Do guys like bold women? Well, that all depends on how bold you are and who the guy is. Still almost every guy is flattered by a woman who is a little bit bold and goes right up to him to flirt a little or to let him see that she is interested in him. Don't be afraid to be bold if that is what it will take to get his attention.

Contrary to what you might be feeling right now, getting a guy's attention and staying on his mind is not that complicated at all. A little smile here and there, some playful flirtations, and you can be sure that he will be thinking about you.

by: Alexandra Scott




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