subject: Facing Challenges In The Early Marriage [print this page] Maybe you've heard the words "And They live happily ever after" that exist only in fairy-tale princess who eventually live happily with the prince. But in real life, whether it can happen? It's not as easy as you think. There are many challenges that there will be no end in marriage life, including in the face of your partner.
Although you and your partner have been dating for years, it can not guarantee that your wedding will go smoothly according to your plan and your spouse. There are so many challenges that will arise in the early days of marriage. The most common problem is the adjustment to your new role as husband or wife. And it's not an easy thing to do that because there will be differences of daily habits, expectations of your marriage, how you communicate, and the values of life.
In many movies maybe you have seen often words said that the power of love can overcome all obstacles. But in reality it is not enough.
Couples who are not ready to adapt at the beginning of the marriage will often occur as a signal that the conflict that has gone out of love or marriage that has been on the stage of destruction.
Although once you assume that the difference is a unique thing but now you assume as hatred.
One of the keys to successfully adapt themselves is aware of the difference between you and your partner. In courtship you must choose a good quality to avoid the problems so you still think that there will be equality vision and mission if you and your spouse are equally adamant. But if you and your partner try to accept each other differences and eventually develop the uniqueness of each wedding that will bring it to walk in harmony.
There is some inspiration and strategies to adapt to early marriage.
The process of adaptation between you and your partner will always be marred by conflict and dissent. You should not set targets too high and should always be relaxed in dealing with various problems.
You need to think about and focus your mind on positive things. Do not enlarge the difference or change your spouse in accordance with the picture that you would expect.
Mutual discuss the views and values to lead a marriage between you and your spouse. Starting from the task of husband or wife, plan to have children, financial management, career development, religious life, and also the relationship with your relatives.
Always establish a good relationship with your partner's family. This meant that the closer you get to know your partner.
You can express love to your partner through a variety of ways. Such as through kissing, words touch, by providing assistance or by providing other small surprises that can please your partner.
You should avoid bad-mouth your partner's family or challenged to a divorce at the time brought it with emotion. Because these two things can cause deep hurt.
The last thing you need to be patient even though the difference and a very heavy process. Do not forget to appreciate your partner's results of operations.
