subject: The Truth About Why She Broke Up With You - And How You Can Find A Way To Get Her Back [print this page] So, your ex girlfriend probably gave you a reason for why she broke up with you and danced around all over your bleeding, little heart. And she may have fed you a whole list of reasons for why she felt it necessary to end the relationship instead of working on trying to make things better. You might be feeling like there is nothing that you can do to get her back. She might have even flat out told you that she will never, ever give you a second chance no matter what you do. Did you know that this might not be true at all? That she might just be saying those things?
Here is the truth about breaking up that most men don't realize:
Even when she does give you reasons for her wanting to end the relationship, many times, those reasons are actually not at all the motive behind the break up. Yeah, you already thought that women were confusing enough. Now, you have to hear this. Well, it's true most of the time. There are women out there that do flat out tell the truth when they break up with a guy. Most don't, though. A lot of women don't even really know the real reasons for why they break up with a guy themselves.
The number one cause of break ups... is the lost feelings of attraction.
Far and away, this is the root cause of most break ups. Especially in the scenario of when a woman breaks up with a guy. She probably won't tell you this, though. It may be because she does not want to hurt your feelings. It may be because she does not know this is the real reason. All she knows is that it just does not "feel right" to her anymore to be with you.
I know, it can be damaging to hear that the loss of attraction is why she dumped you. It should not be, and here is why. When attraction gets lost... it just does not float away, gone forever. It CAN be brought back. It CAN be triggered again. When it does get brought back, she probably won't even realize it at first. All she will know is that she suddenly has "feelings" for you again.
This is GOOD.
Once those feelings are reignited in your ex girlfriend, it is just a matter of time and proper strategy for you to win her back. And the best thing is, when you do it RIGHT, you can have her back for the long term if that is what you really want. I'm talking the real long term. Because a part of her will believe that it is FATE that is guiding her back to you. And women dig that idea. That fate is what brings them closer to a guy. You can be that guy. And you can guide fate to be on YOUR side.
