subject: Relationship On The Rocks? Read This Before She Leaves You [print this page] There is no use in beating yourself up, blaming yourself, or searching for endless answers to why things are not working out the way that you think they should in your relationship right now. If your relationship is on the rocks, it's much more important that you get yourself focused on doing things to fix whatever is broken. Otherwise, you may dealing with a girlfriend who is leaving you instead of a relationship that just is not right. That's a much bigger problem, one that cannot be dealt with so easily.
For every situation that does not have a fix to it, there are many more that do. The problem that most people have today is that they are not willing to work on their relationship the minute it gets hard or it gets too real for them. If you don't ever want to have to deal with the picture of your girlfriend walking out the door, knowing that she is never going to come back, then you need to pay close attention.
Here's some advice on what you should do if you find your relationship on the rocks right now:
1) Ask her to sit down and talk about what she thinks is wrong with the relationship.
Getting her feedback on the status of where you stand with her is invaluable, and it is one of those things that most guys are never going to do. It's hard, because you might get some feedback that you do not want to hear. On the other hand, it is still much better than losing the girl that you love, am I right? Sit her down and she just might allow you to get some clues as to what she is thinking.
2) Spend some time working on yourself, because when you are better, your relationship may get better.
We all have issues that we need to deal with from time to time, things about our lives that we can improve. Sometimes, that can have an exponential effect and carry over into your relationship. Look at our life and see if there is anything that you can improve on and that just might make your relationship take on a new life.
3) Plan a special night out with your girlfriend.
Have you been neglecting her a little bit? Have you allowed things to become too routine? If so, then what you may need to do is to plan a night out with her. Take her somewhere special. Find a place she has wanted to go for some time, and surprise her. You mi just knock her off her feet and bring back the romance that is missing.
