subject: Why Some Men Thrive And Some Men Hide In Bars And Clubs [print this page] When most guys think about what places and what venues that they can attend in order to meet women, bars and clubs will almost always be the first place that they think of. In these kinds of situations, some men seem to thrive, while others seem to hide. Of course, the ones that hide are the ones that are undoubtedly going to end the evening by themselves alone and a little worse off for wear. What makes the difference between the ones who thrive and the ones who hide in bars and nightclubs.
Before I get into deeper detail about why this is, I'd just like to remind you that bars and clubs certainly are not the only places that a man can go to meet women. Yet, I also know that most guys are still going to regard these two places as the main source for meeting women. So, let's get into some details about what the difference is between guys who thrive in clubs and guys who hide.
Here are 3 differences between the two types of guys that you can learn from:
1. The guys who thrive look obviously comfortable in their situation and in their surroundings.
You can always tell when a guy walks into a club or a bar and it is obviously not his ideal place to be. You can tell by the way that he walks, the way that he moves throughout the crowd, and the fact that he usually finds a place to get out of the way. It's almost like they would much rather be in a coffee shop or something. On the other hand, the guys who thrive in these venues have a completely different way of holding themselves, more like they are really enjoying the night and the place where they are.
2. The guys who thrive also make eye contact as they move around the place.
Shying away from making eye contact is one of the more obvious signals to other people that you don't feel comfortable and it also tends to make other people feel that way. The guys who thrive in clubs and bars and at parties, do not shy away from making eye contact with other people, especially with the women. This is something that you must do, so you seem like you are really at home.
3. The ones who do well in clubs are also great at pin pointing which women they want to mingle with right away.
You have to have a game plan, right? Most guys walk into a club, especially one with a lot of pretty women, and it is like they are a kid in a candy store. They cannot make a decision on who they want to talk to, and they wind up talking to no one at all. If you want to do well in bars, in clubs, or even at parties, you need to make a choice and pin point them woman whom you really want to speak with.
