subject: I Dumped Him - Is There Any Hope At All That He Will Take Me Back? [print this page] For whatever reason that you had, you got fed up with the way that things were going with your boyfriend and you kicked him to the curb. It probably felt good for a little bit, but then when you had to deal with the reality of being split up from him... it started to feel kind of strange. Kind of like someone was missing from your life and you did not like that feeling at all. You started to think about him, and a funny thing happened. All of those things that you would have complained about before, did not seem to be so bad at all.
Now, you are at a cross roads where you want to get him back, but you are not quite sure if this is even possible. You would do anything to take back that day when you said that you wanted things to end, but you know that this is not always as easy as you want it to be. Since you were the one who dumped him, can you find a way to get your ex boyfriend back?
Unless you were really cold and cruel about the way you ended the relationship, you probably DO stand a pretty good chance of getting your ex boyfriend back. While you do have to make amends for breaking up with him, this is not always a situation where he is completely closed off to getting back together.
You Need to Make Him Feel Wanted Again...
One of the most appealing things to a guy is when he really feels like he is wanted. This does a lot for his ego and his self esteem. So, if getting back with your ex boyfriend is high on your list of priorities, then you should know that stroking his ego is definitely going to be a good thing. It will raise your odds of getting him back by a LOT.
You Need to Let HIM Feel in Control...
For a guy, one of the worst feelings about getting dumped is that they feel like they are not at all in control for anything in the relationship. They feel like all of the power is in your hands. For this reason, if you are serious about getting him back, then you need to let him feel in control. You don't have to give him ALL of the power in the relationship... but you DO need to make him feel like he definitely has some say in the way that things are going to go down.
