subject: I Want My Ex Boyfriend To Want Me Back - What Am I Doing Wrong? [print this page] Do you feel like you have given it your all and that you are totally out of luck and out of ideas when it comes to getting back your ex boyfriend? Are you wondering if there is any hope that you can really win back your ex boyfriend or should you just decide to find a way to move on? These are never really easy questions to answer. You have to look at things on so many different levels and really, only you know all of the details about the situation.
However, there is some pretty sound advice that you can follow that can help you get your ex boyfriend back. There are also many things that you need to avoid doing if you want him back. Striking the balance between avoiding all of the wrong things, while focusing on all of the right things is not easy, but it can be done. If you feel like you are doing something wrong trying to win back your boyfriend, pay close attention.
Here are 3 common things that you may be doing wrong that will make him want nothing to do with you:
1) Hiding behind the blame game with him.
If there is anything that will kill your hopes of getting back your ex boyfriend, this is it. If you are using the blame game as a way to get back at him, or if you are trying to hold certain things over his head, then you need to stop. It's not going to help in any way and it actually is counter productive to your goal of being able to work things out with your ex boyfriend.
2) Using jealousy too much as a way to make him want you again.
Here's the thing that you need to know about making a guy jealous. A little bit goes a long way. If you want to get him back, then there is nothing wrong with making him a little bit jealous. Let him know that there are other men who think you are attractive. Just do not go too far with it, because that can make the situation turn into one that you cannot handle and make him want to just move on without you.
3) Forgetting that in order to win him over the first time, you had to flirt with him.
Yes, you still have to use those old flirting tricks that helped you get him in the first place. Forgetting that this is necessary is one mistake that you do not want to make. You have to realize that he does not "owe" you a second chance, you have to find a way to make him want to give you one. And simple flirting can be enough to make him feel that way.
