subject: Why Women Lose Their Shape With Age And Struggle With Weight Loss [print this page] This article is for females over the age of thirty who arent happy with their body and have tried countless diets to no avail. Im going to paint you a picture that I see happening far too often. Unfortunately with so much misinformation being pitched by marketers only out to make a quick buck, many women get stuck with negative feelings of frustration and a degraded self esteem from so called solutions that failed.
See if you can relate to my story of Emily. This will still be a very powerful and eye opening illustration. Ive heard this same basic storyline from countless Emilys over the years as a Charleston weight loss consultant. It goes something like this
When Emily was in her 20s she could have things like potato chips and a diet coke for breakfast, eat a couple meals a day at most, and still maintain a pretty nice figure. She really didnt watch what she would eat all that much and rarely exercised. Never-the-less, she had a good shape and would certainly turn a few heads in her bikini back in the day.
Emily pretty much had energy to burn and could go on 5-6 hours of sleep, or less, for several nights in a row without missing a beat. She had self-confidence and rarely hesitated to wear an outfit because of how it might reveal her body. When Emily wanted to lose a few pounds for some event, she would simply diet for about a week and it typically did the job.
Then Emily hit her 30s, started having children, and watched as the figure of her youth faded fast. Tight fitting blue jeans, mini-skirts and summer dresses were being replaced with outfits that could cover up and make certain areas of her body less noticeable.
She didnt gain a lot of weight all at once, except during her pregnancies. In fact it was only about on average three to five pounds a year. But by the time she was thirty-five though, she had managed to add an extra 15 pounds that wasnt there in her twenties.
Her body started to look significantly different in a lot of waysit wasnt just the obvious weight gain. She just didnt have the same shape or figure of her youth. There wasnt the tightness and tone in her arms and legs like before.
In all reality, Emily was somewhat baffled with the weight gain as her diet hadnt changed all that much over the years. In fact, if anything her diet was better than before as she stopped downing diet cokes, potato chips, and other junk food like she did when she was younger.
Emily thinks to herself.How could I change up my diet to be so much healthier, not eat excessive calories, and still gain weight?
And the thing is, dieting wasnt working any more either. Emily tried fad diet after fad diet over the years. And while some worked for a little while, many didnt work at all and inevitably all the weight came back on.often with a few more pounds to boot.
Confused and frustrated, Emily comes to the conclusion that it must be exercise and is convinced that doing cardio will be her solution. She tells herself that it cant be her diet since shes eating healthier and is certainly not eating more calories than she used to.
So she joins a gym and signs up for three aerobics classes a week and decides to do 45 minutes a day on the treadmill. Low and behold, this doesnt work either!
Somewhere between this point in her life and the time she started into her forties, Emily had started and stopped countless more diets, started and stopped exercise several more times, bought infomercial products off late night TV, tried a few over the counter weight loss pills, and a handful of other so called solutions that didnt pan out.
The self-confidence of her youth is now something she tries to find in self improvement books at Barnes & Nobles. Shes pretty much at a lost and dreads even thinking about starting another diet or working out. In her mind, whats the use? It wont work anyways.
Thoughts of failure and denial have set in
Regardless of exactly when it was, at some point in time during her journey Emily only confirmed to herself several faulty belief systems.
1. That eating healthy and exercising wont work
2. That weight gain, cellulite, and the changes in her body are simply part of getting older and having children.
3. That theres not much outside of cosmetic surgery she can do about it.
These are all three LIES!
Now before I go any further...even if Emily didnt have children, she would likely be in a very similar position because of her faulty belief systems and lifestyle choices.
I want to be very clear about that as I see pregnancy being used far too often as an excuse for long-term weight gain. Will you gain weight during pregnancy, of course, but how much weight you gain and whether or not youre able to lose it post-pregnancy will be determined by your decisions.
Alright back to storylinelets recap and do a quick summary.
Emily could pretty much eat whatever, junk food included, in her twenties and rarely exercised but still maintained her weight and a nice figure.
Emily actually cleaned up her diet in her thirties and would eat much healthier but still she gained weight. This is even with controlling calories and watching everything she ate.
Steadily the progression continued, year after year, she would gain more weight and lose the tone and shape of her body.
The mistakes and take away lessons from Emilys story
Alright ladies, what Im about to tell you in the next few paragraphs will either make the light bulb go off in your head or youll read through this in complete denial and continue looking for some magic bullet solution.
Whether you could relate to everything in Emilys story or maybe youre just starting down that roadheres the TRUTH about what happens.
Im not even going to get into the whys behind the faulty belief systems that causes most of this mess for women (thats another article in itself). But rather Ill stick with giving you the story behind the story.
Heres what happens
The first thing you need to understand is how your metabolism is impacted by hormonal balances. Obviously, the higher your metabolism, the easier it will be for you to maintain your weight.
For many women in their twenties they can get away with a poor diet and still not see that much of a change because their hormone levels are naturally high and they havent lost any lean muscle yet.
The problem is both (hormone levels and lean muscle) start to steadily decline after about age thirty unless preventive measures are taken. With the decrease in hormone and muscle, metabolism declines as well.
For every pound of lean muscle that is lost, your metabolism gets turned down a few clicks, and fat replaces it. Little by little so the transformation goes.
Low calorie diets only make the problem worse by speeding up muscle loss and further wrecking metabolism. With each yo-yo dieting attempt it gets harder and harder.
Then we have the cardio done on a restrictive calorie diet. This is extremely counterproductive as well. Its the same problem with hormonal shifts and the impacts of losing muscle. Burning more calories from doing cardio, when there wasnt enough energy to support metabolism to begin with, only enhances the catabolic (muscle wasting) effects of the dieting.
You must understand, it all comes down to metabolism, hormonal balances, and lean muscle. Yes of course you need to eat healthy foods to support your metabolism and theres a connection here with everything. The thing is you just have to look at how the human body works.
So here is the bottom line
Low calorie diets and a lack of concern for lean muscle is the real reason why most women lose their shape.
Can diets be used effectively for weight loss? Of course they can, but always short term and always in a way that doesnt compromise metabolism and lean muscle. The problem is the majority of women dont eat to support metabolism and muscle, or do weight training for that matter, because of faulty belief systems.
They think weight training is just for the guys and theyre convinced that if you want to weight less, you need to eat less.
These two faulty belief systems handed down from generation to generation are largely to blame for the frustration. Ladies, heres the thing. Theres someone you know whos had the three kids, etc, and still has the body of a twenty something year old. Go and simply investigate what theyre doing. Im serious, dont take my word for it, see for yourself! Investigate what theyre doing for exercise and what their diet is really like.
Ill bet you that nine times out of ten (with the exception of 5% of the population who have the genetic gift of an ultra fast metabolism) these women are eating several small supportive nutrition meals and day and theyre doing some sort of resistance training.
It doesnt matter if its weight training, boot camp, body pump, whatever.theyre doing something to provide resistance in conjunction with cardiovascular exercise and a healthy, supportive diet.
The bottom line is dieting and avoiding resistance training is a mistake and the end result will always be the same. You simply have to look no further than the truth about how the human body works to find your answers.
Hormonal levels (especially testosterone and growth hormone) decline rapidly after the age of about thirty for women. These are two very powerful hormones that impact metabolism and lean muscle. Resistance training can help to increase their levels naturally.
Low calorie diets done over long periods of time simply result in decreased thyroid production and a slowed metabolism (along with increased muscle loss).
But wait theres good news!
No matter where youre at, regardless of your age, you can start reversing the negative impacts of low calorie diets and a loss of lean muscle. It may take you a little longer than someone else who hasnt lost as much muscle yet or decreased their metabolism as muchbut the factors for transforming your body will ALWAYS be the same. Here are two things you MUST have
A supportive nutrition diet (eating several small meals with a good mix of carbs, proteins, and fats, through out the day to support metabolism and lean muscle)
A concern for muscle (doing resistance training in some way, shape, or form). Burst training routines are ideal because theyll optimize hormonal levels for fat loss. To learn more about burst training click on the link above to see my full article on that subject.
I hope this article helped put in perspective the real reason why you start to lose your shape with age and what to do about it. As a certified Charleston personal trainer and fitness consultant Im always here to help with any questions you may have about achieving a body transformation.
