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You may not like what I'm going to say to you.

It may taste bad going down - like the yucky cough syrup your mom or dad or grandparent gave you when you were sick...you hated the taste,

hated having it forced down your throat...but then you felt a LOT better afterward - didn't you?

Like those who love you and care about you, I'm not here to pump you up - or to make you feel good.

I am however, here to tell you the TRUTH...and the truth will set you FREE!

And what is the truth? Simply this: Most people like being stuck. ARE YOU ONE OF THESE PEOPLE???

Numerous couples and individuals have consulted with me about how to stop their divorce & have a better marriage - "How can we

get from where we are to where we want to be?": More love, more passion, more peace, more fun, more happiness;

better communication, a better sex life. ... So if you want to take save your marriage & then take it to the next level, or several levels...

WHY ARE YOU SABOTAGING YOURSELF (consciously or unconsciously)???

So many people I've consulted with and coached clearly want a different (better) experience in their romantic relationship - why bother

stopping your divorce if nothing's ever any different? Who wants to remain miserable?? No, we want to experience the hope for which we

got married for in the first place.

Yet when the "rubber meets the road" they're unwilling to actually take any ACTION. They hold back - with each other. They play

games.

One couple I know of is seeing a counselor together, and the husband is seeing a different therapist on his own. And as it turns

out, the couple tells their "joint" therapist one story - the "reason" they're stuck or "supposed" challenges...and yet the husband

tells his counselor why their REALLY stuck. This happens ALL the time. This couple is paying a LOT of money, and investing a TON

of time...so why aren't they CHOOSING to be real & honest? Because...

NO ONE LIKES TAKING RESPONSIBILITY and NO ONE LIKES BEING HELD ACCOUNTABLE (which is a top reason YOUR marriage is in serious trouble -

& one of the first things you're going to want to do different if you're serious about saving your marriage).

(even me, however, I do both because I want the success

which both actions produce...by the way, can I share one of the secrets of the MOST SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE? It's actually really simple -

yet not many people carry it out. Truly successful people simply DO the things they DON'T want to do, versus unsuccessful people who

don't do what they don't want to do. Simple right?)

This couple, like most couples, is no fool. They realize (consciously or unconsciously) once they are honest with their therapist about

the TRUE challenges they're facing, they'll be held accountable and their feet will be held to the fire. But you have to ask yourself...

IF YOU TRULY WANT TO BE DIFFERENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP & GET THE RESULTS YOU REALLY WANT, WOULDN'T YOU SIMPLY CHOOSE TO BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR

REAL CHALLENGES???

Stay tuned for my next article, as I reveal to you the HIDDEN and UNDERLYING reason most couples sabotage themselves &

their attempts at stopping their divorce, keeping themselves from experiencing the lasting results they really want...

Discover How YOU Can Stop Your Divorce & Save Your Marriage!

By: Tars Thark

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