subject: Lesbian Dating Guide - How to Flirt In the Right Way [print this page] If you are new on the lesbian dating scene, the art of flirting can be a difficult thing to learn. This is especially true, if you are unsure of your crush's sexual proclivity. Of course, gay or straight, being flirted with is always a boost to the self-confidence. And of course, nothing can compare to the excitement of having your crush flirt back with you in return. Even though we all can agree that we enjoy being flirted with, and knowing that other people find us attractive, the ability to flirt does not necessarily come naturally. For this reason, we have listed some key points on how to flirt well.Read her Body LanguageThere's nothing wrong with flirting with someone you've just met, but you need to be aware of her reactions. Is her body language standoffish? Is she showing signs, such as crossing her arms, to signal that she is not interested? Try to take note of these small little clues. If a woman isn't picking up what you're putting down, it's best to just move on. To continue flirting with her is rude, and may make her feel uncomfortable.Make Eye ContactNever underestimate the power of your eyes. Look your love interest right in the eyes when you are speaking to her. This not only projects confidence, but it also shows that you're interested. Hold your stare a little too long, and see how she reacts. If she's into you, she'll stare right back.Get Yourself in PositionIt doesn't matter how good you are at giving eye contact, if you're halfway across the room a powerful stare just isn't going to cut it. Get yourself near her. If you're in a group try to sit next to her, or at least across from her. There's no harm in making your move in an obvious fashion to clue her in to the fact that you like her.Try to Have Some Physical ContactThere's nothing more exciting than a little "accidental" physical contact with your crush. If you're sitting next to each other at a booth, sit close by so that your leg touches hers. Does she move away? If she stays in close, it's a good sign. Touch her arm or her hand lightly during conversation. These small touches will help show your intention that you are interested and at the same time help gauge whether she is on the same wavelength.Compliment HerEveryone, especially women, love compliments. Who doesn't want to hear great things about themselves? If you are looking to date a woman, it's best not to dwell on physical comments too early on. It is probably better to compliment her dressing style or sense of humor. If you're feeling comfortable, you can go a step further and tell her that she looks really pretty tonight, or that she has beautiful eyes. But if you're interested in more than just a hook-up, you should refrain from complimenting her on being "sexy" or "hot." Compliments like these make women think you're only interested in sex.
Lesbian Dating Guide - How to Flirt In the Right Way
